Greyscale, thanks! That's what I was thinking too...

Diana, thanks! I agree. And I also thought of dainty Oxfords as an option...

Thank you, Gaylene! It's already on its way.

Tulle, thanks! Yes, I would wear my taupe Oxfords with it. I don't have any other shoes that would be suitable. I do have some brands that have a much bigger chance of success, but you have to look hard for the right styles. Most sandal styles at the moment have fixed straps anyway, but even if they had buckles extra holes wouldn't help much - I don't need more volume on top but more width in the soles (especially in front). I've said that my Birks are just wide enough, but I have the straps in the second tightest settings (I think).

Astrid,
You amaze me at how focused you are on garment purchases...need vs. want...must fit into lifestyle...well thought out.

I would have much more in my retirement account if I would have had your restraint when I was young.

WELL DONE!!

Sounds like you are thinking about creating more of a "special occasion capsule" than just dressing for one event. That's a n excellent idea, particularly since you keep a small, well curated wardrobe. Hope the dress works out!

Omg Astrid, I love this EBay dress. It's perfect. It has so much character and it's got a lovely cut.

I'm with Dakotacheryl here....you sure are focused on what you want and what will/will not work for your wardrobe as a whole. Very inspiring!

I can't wait for that dress to get to you so that we can all see it with the taupe oxfords. Fingers crossed!

Seconding Dakotacheryl on your exceptional restraint and thoughtfulness when purchasing clothes. I do admire your serious, disciplined approach--just hope you are having fun, too! Taupe oxfords don't exactly sound like fun, but I'll be curious to see that combo!

Thanks everyone. I really hope the dress works out. I guess the taupe oxfords wouldn't mean the most fun shoe possible, but it is a combination that wouldn't look too strange, I think. I will keep looking for a pair of shoes in the meantime!