Thank you all for your very thoughtful and insightful comments, there is much to ponder here.
Tanya - I think throwing this over a pretty dress is exactly how I can make it work for me - I love that idea.
Angie - as soon as I saw the sneakers I thought of Harajuku too! I just look at my feet and feel happy in them. As the grey streaks are appearing in my hair, perhaps keeping this jacket in the holding zone until my silver transformation is complete is what is required.
Mainelady - I am thrilled that the YLF thinks my crazy sneakers were a good wildcard purchase for me. I think colour may make the difference or else I can let it go to someone who will love it.
Janet, thank you for the suggestions, colour and a scarf are likely to lift the jacket. I love how you combine neutrals with scarves and beautiful accessories.
KKards, you make me laugh - the sneakers are quite loud! And yes to adding colour. Given I have lots of other jackets, perhaps it is time for me and this jacket to part ways...
Slim Cat - I am amazed at how much I wore grey previously. I think I bought this jacket circa 2012, so it is an older piece in my wardrobe.
Katerina, the scarf and sneakers are super fun together!
The Cat - thank you for your feedback. My goodness, how could I ever be offended by such a compliment. I thoroughly agree, that there are so much better colours on me. Unfortunately, when I bought this jacket, I was just trying to fade into the background because my boss at work was relentless in his criticism of how I was always too dressed up and bold in my fashion choices. Luckily I changed jobs and decided to embrace my love of colour!
Shevia - everything is so much better with pink! That is a great suggestion.
Suz - I think the jacket needs something added to make it feel like me and have been thinking about adding some sparkly brooches and wearing with colour.