My goodness first may I say the collective wisdom of this group is incredible. You all had such great ideas to share on the subject of rules.
Second- I have to chuckle at the number of you that like to break or ignore the rules - it makes me wonder if the actual word- rules - raises emotions or is it that a “Rose by any other name would smell as sweet” eg- preferences, guidelines, practices, own terms.
For all those responding to white- Except for classic white shirt I personally don’t wear white at all- my first career as a nurse has killed any desire to wear a white dress, white pants or white shoes no matter what generation set a time rule- lol -of course now nurses wear scrubs of all colors and prints. So you all have fun with white- I am out.
Kkards, Anchie, and Echo- I get the whole black and navy thing- but I actually got dressed in the dark one day and wore one navy and one black shoe (same style shoe) to work. Lunchtime could not come fast enough so I could go home and get it right. Teasing was unmerciful. In spite of those of you ( like Suz)who say never say never——— that 1 navy/ 1 black shoe will never happen again- never, never, never- lol
For so many of us-the shoes-The comfy shoe thing amazes me -how is it that we had to arrive at having that as a rule- should that have not just been a given for all people??? Strangely it isn’t.
For Katerina, Aurore, Angie and others who spoke about dressing appropriately for the environment, situation, clients etc that is so true. What’s the saying- you never get a second chance to make a great first impression. I love Lisa’s reference to that CEO- so simple but some people have a hard time with dressing appropriately- I saw it when I was working.
Vix,Barbara, Cardiff and Echo- honestly your lists were amazing and thoughtful and thought provoking....as was Krish’s of never blame the body- omg that should be a sign in every dressing room everywhere.
To all of my YLF Friends- thank you so much for your wonderful wisdom, interesting insights, sassy solutions and your collective cache of knowledge .
You are all fabulous in more than just looks.
Will get back to you on the book review.
Thank you all