I’m a 51 year old, 5 ft 9 inch tall, high waisted rectangle body shape with apple or bulky belly area (including muffin top) looking for help in dressing myself better. I have never been this large in my life, so I’m so lost in how to look and feel better in my clothes. I’ve watched quite a few videos but none have my body requirements. I don’t have anyone to take with me shopping that can help teach me so I rarely go anymore. I work at a desk all day so I deal with how clothes fit for my midsection more while sitting rather than mostly standing or moving. I sit down and all my lumps explode, making it more uncomfortable. I can’t wear a body shaper either due to a medical problem. Help?!