Thanks so much everyone. Apologies if I don't respond to each of you.
I do love the teal blazer, even though it is a size or two too large, I can't seem to get rid of it. But I probably really should shorten the sleeve as Ornella and lyn67 suggest.
Sunee, thanks for taking the time to make suggestions. Truthfully, I don't worry all that much about traditional figure flattery. For me, the mix of textures up top was worth looking a bit top heavy - after all I am top heavy, and I'm fine with that (most days anyway).
Dee, glad I'm not the only sex/gender pedant. It particularly drives me crazy when used about animals - no, your dog is NOT gendered!
Catnip, the pin something I bought ages ago for $1 at a junk shop b/c I thought it was pretty. It lives on that blazer, and I actually didn't even take it into consideration as an accessory. I am particular to circle pins and wouldn't mind finding another ...
JAileen, Ha, I totally cracked up at the Donald Sutherland in Animal House bit.
I loved Suz's description of "richand a little bit androgynous and a little bit romantic," and BethAnn's of "a Don at Cambridge in the 1930's" and E's of a dandy.
I have long been attracted to androgynous looks but always figured I wouldn't be able to pull it off due to the boobs of wrath. When I cut my hair into a supershort pixie, I actually looked more feminine, which was a surprise. I might have another danydish look for you today though ...