Question for Plus Size Apple types - do you follow the guidelines for apples?

And I guess anyone can comment about following body type rules or not, and which rules just dont work for you, but I'm a chunky apple, so obviously I'm curious about others. I dont know many (any?) women with my body shape. I'm bigger, size 18/20, but my legs (esp calves) are much slimmer. I have a big tummy, most of my weight is in my midsection. My measurements are 45-38-48 (wearing a bra).

Just a year ago, I would just throw on anything. Over the past year, I've really gotten into my look, I'm less depressed, and I have a budding shopping problem. Its for the best. But one thing that I always see when it comes to apple shapes is that we should focus on volume below and avoid tapered pants...except skinny jeans are my life! I really do look better in skinny jeans. I'm just curious if others experience the same rebellion to the rules for the best of their look?

I do get self conscious in shorts though.