I am an unreliable judge of how clothes feel at the moment because I went a long time without wearing anything tailored, so my preferred feeling is to feel as little as possible. Even jewelry feels sometimes hopelessly constricting. ANYWAY, these responses helped me sort out my “feelings” about the coat. These are actually pretty clear. The XS makes me happy. The S does not feel fab on.
Also, I am trying to do due diligence by layering under the coat, but it’s a bit of an academic exercise really. I have spent two winters in New York now, and I don’t even wear my warmest sweaters because it’s just not that cold here. Perhaps in another couple of years I will adjust to the milder climate and need those sweaters.
DonnaF, interesting point about the sizes.
On my list to do today (courtesy of Donna and Karen), blast A/C in the car and drive a few blocks, hug hubby, but do not pick up the children or the coat will be instantly dirty If I am still unsure, I am going to return both because I think in that case it’s an issue of cut, as some people here suggested. Thanks again for all this help. I feel a bit silly that I can’t tell when clothes fit anymore, but there we are, and thank goodness I have somewhere to turn.
ETA: Skylurker, Thank you! The glasses are new, and I am just getting used to them. Big departure for me.