In the morning if I need a relaxer - Woodland Flute CD or something else soft playing, candles lit (for aroma), windows open (for breeze if it's nice out)/slippers & comfy pj's if it's not, nice hot cup of coffee w/special creamer of the season (mocha peppermint right now or something like that) & surf these wonderful fashion blogs/forum and just enjoy the morning slowly....
Middle of the day or 1st day of vacation - massage (oh preferrably on the beach feeling the breeze, listening to the waves rush in)....
In the evening - nice glass of red wine, rich cheeses/specialty crackers, olives, followed by dark chocolate, candles, and sometimes a dip in the hot tub with hubby & some good oldie's on (that would probably be '80's for me...) - ohh & if it was a perfect night the snow would be falling...
I feel relaxed just thinking about it all!