Thanks so much for the good thoughts. Chandler is still in ICU but is stable. He's there tonight mainly because they don't have a bed available in the area he needs to go to next. He's very frustrated about it but I am grateful he is in a place to be able to be frustrated. I feel pretty lost right now and am just taking things sort of hour by hour.
I don't want to burden all of you with too much detail but he is where he is because of something he did to himself, so the healing process is going to be long and will go on long past the time he gets out of hospital. There is no pain in this world like seeing your child in anguish.
Really - I know this is a fashion blog and forum and not the place for all of this. I'm exhausted and really don't have anyone to talk to so I'm a little loopy. I truly appreciate the camaraderie I find here and I will be back to normal posting soon enough