Thanks so much for the update, I have thought about you constantly.
This is a fun forum, yet at the same time it appears to be unifying and supportive....and everyone realizes what the priorities are. In the end, the clothes don't really matter.
Jenny, it must be a terrible stream of emotions to deal with the aftermath resulting from Chandler doing something to put himself in such a vulnerable position. We raise them hoping that they will be safe with themselves and for themselves. Hopefully he will realize that he can get through the pain and eventually be ok. You seem like a very supportive mother. Keep supporting him through it and know that we are here to support you through your piece of it.
Peace and calm