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My bachelorette

debbie23

I’m looking for a little feedback on my bachelorette party outfit. This is what I really want to wear:
https://www.nordstrom.com/s/na.....it/5044472

I tried to copy the photos so you could look at them but my phone wouldn’t let me. Anyway it’s a sheer lace catsuit, not the type of thing I’d wear every day but your bachelorette comes only once (hopefully) and I want to go all out. To really make it special I and take it to the limit I want to wear it with a strappy thong like this:
https://www.bluebella.us/produ.....#038;_ss=r

Or this:
https://www.bluebella.us/produ.....#038;_ss=r

Instead of a bra I want to make it really extra by just wearing black heart nipple covers.
Or I might go for an overall nude look by wearing a brown nude thong and nude nipple covers.
What do you think? Is it sexy or too much?

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Anonymous

Lol.

debbie23

Is that a good or bad lol?

Anonymous

Sorry . This is so far out there , I had to laugh . Clearly I haven’t been to a bachelorette party in 100 years . And I’m ok with that

debbie23

Thanks. Like I said I wouldn’t wear this every day. I want to make my bachelorette special by dressing like I never have before and (probably) never will again. I’ll probably wear a tuxedo mini outside and take it off at the party:
https://www.asos.com/us/asos-d.....lsrc=aw.ds

Any suggestions to make the outfit really pop?

Anonymous

No further comment .

Echo

Veteran

Yikes. And I mean that in a bad way.

Anonymous

I have no current experience with a venue at which this would be appropriate attire but I'm intrigued that at the Nordstrom site it says 11,845 people are viewing the catsuit.

debbie23

It’s a VIP room at a restaurant. I’ll wear a tuxedo jacket like a mini dress until I’m in the party. Then it’ll be just us girls there.

Jenava

(website)

Veteran

Where do you live? I only ask this because most places around here re shut down due to covid.

debbie23

I’m planning to wait until the restrictions are lifted before I do this. I don’t have an exact date, just exact ideas about what I want to wear. What do you think of my outfit idea?

Joy

Veteran

LOL. This seems like too much.

debbie23

But it’s a bachelorette! If there’s any time to go all out wouldn’t it be your bachelorette?

Lynne

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Congratulations on your upcoming Wedding, Debbie! I think this is meant to be worn underneath something else? I notice it's sold along with stocking and tights.....but you do what empowers you :). And be the first to write a review!

debbie23

Thanks Lynne! I love that you chose the word empowers . That’s just what it is to me. It’s an empowering choice to celebrate my sexuality after a long period of ignoring it. And it can be worn like I want to. There is a style board there marked bachelorette party. It shows it with a thong and heart shaped nipple covers but no bra. Just the way I plan to wear it!

rachylou

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I guess it’s like a Cardi B thing... but are you sure you want to wear black for a bachelorette?

debbie23

I guess you could call it a Cardi B thing, but I never thought about it like that. I definitely want to wear black for my bachelorette. I know it’s traditional for the bachelorette to wear white but I’m not trying to make things traditional and that includes my wedding dress. My girls are all fine and I need to up my game to stand out. But what do you think about the outfit overall?

Lynne

Veteran

I like it with the long blazer; but I feel cold just thinking about it without :).

kkards

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I don’t know, maybe its me, but this feels more like a 1st anniversary outfit than a bachelorette outfit...but than again, like Lisap I’m old and its been 100 years since I’ve attended a bachelorette party

Stagiaire Fash

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So the plan is to wear the stocking with pasties, a thong, and a long tux jacket to the party, then take off the jacket while you and your girlfriends are in the private room, just your group?

I just bought a body stocking to wear under a dress with an open bra and probably something flimsy like a thong. That’s how I’ll wear it whenever this guy who is on another continent can visit me here and we can go out. (Who knows, if I meet someone else in the meantime, I might wear it with him). I also plan to wear the stocking as tights, with my usual underthings, under dresses/skirts when I’m going about my normal day.

I won’t laugh at or judge you and your friends, but if a friend was to wear a body stocking with me and other women, with nothing over it, even at a special occasion, I’d wonder why. But you know your friends; we don’t.

I didn’t notice if this one is open at the bottom. That sounds like a sex thing but if it isn’t, you’ll have the same issue going to the bathroom that others complain about with jumpsuits. It doesn’t bother me with jumpsuits, which I wear often in the summertime, because I don’t usually wear much over them. With a body stocking, I prefer to have the opening and wear my panties on top. Then I can wear my dress or whatever and not have to worry about taking it off.

I also notice the price of this one. It is made of nylon. There are lots of attractive nylon body stocking available online for much lower prices. Why not save your money? Your local lingerie store can probably show/tell you brands that are common in your country, or you can try Yandy.com They ship to a lot of places. I don’t think most of their gear is good quality—it’s mostly costumes to put on for 15 minutes before things get serious—but for a nylon body stocking, I don’t see the difference, honestly.

Here is an article you might like. The outfits she shows for work are not appropriate for my work, but they are nice looks, and she has some looks for special occasions further down. I really like the dramatic robe she shows for brunch, but maybe some of the other ideas will speak to you. https://www.thelingerieaddict......r+lingerie

debbie23

Thanks FashIntern!
I love that site and her looks. But I do agree with you on the work look. If I tried to go to work like that I’d get some serious side eye and maybe a lot more. I don’t know where you’d be working that you could wear that. I do love the brunch robe and I especially love her holiday party look. It’s revealing but still classy.
The catsuit isn’t open at the bottom. I was thinking about wearing this one if it comes back in stock for some bling:

https://www.fashionnova.com/pr.....suit-black

Wearing the panties on the outside is an idea but not something I want to do. I can’t decide between a strappy black thong for a statement like this one:

https://www.nordstrom.com/s/bl.....;color=001

Or a brown girl nude thong for a naked look. Thoughts?
The open bra is an idea. I kind of like this one:

https://www.amazon.com/Amazing.....B01FSE13TE

Thoughts?

Anonymous

We are being trolled here, my friends.

Anonymous

Nordstrom catsuit audience currently at 3766

Anonymous

Hahahaha!

Stagiaire Fash

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Huh? That’s a steep drop. Wonder why.

debbie23

I have no idea. I’m just floating some ideas to make my bachelorette party special. I’m just a girl who wants to stand out and have a good time on my special night.

debbie23

I love this one too:
https://kikiriki.com/crystal-e.....bQQAvD_BwE

Does anyone have any experience dealing with this company?

Anonymous

You’ve chosen an odd place for this . Have you read much of this forum or seen who are regular posters or readers ??

debbie23

I’ve looked around. Why not? It’s an open forum not a closed group. Everyone is entitled to express an opinion.

Anonymous

I like the fashionnova or kikiriki ones better than the first and would much prefer to be in your company if you were wearing the kind of underwear in those images than a bare bottom thong and nipple covers.

Not sure how a long period of ignoring your sexuality is the lead up to a bachelorette but the world is most definitely and delightfully a place of endless mystery.

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