Ladies, thank you so much for all the wonderful comments and advice. I'm glad I got the thumbs up for the cardi, cos I do love it. The positive feedback on the dress was interesting as I really like it but didn't feel it looked that great in the photo, would probably be better with a bit of a heel, but that won't be happening.
Anne (waves to fellow West Aussie), I am happier with my summer clothes now that I've decided I will wear sleeveless tops when necessary and have given up worrying about the bingo wings.
Rachylou, thanks for the compliment about the hair. I've had it short most of my adult life. In the past I have had it very short, and although I know it looks butch its just so easy. Recently grown the top longer after gentle encouragement from friends and been very happy with it.
Suz, you noticed I like black! Always thought of myself as a typical, winter and worn a lot of black, red and white plus other colours in clear, bright tones such as pink, blue, and starting to wear a bit of green. Not sure of goals, just trying to improve the standard of my normal style plus be a bit more adventurous, eg #4., oh and quality over quantity.
Beth Ann, good point. I know some of my clothes need to be of a slimmer silhouette, but I am in the midst of losing weight so some items, especially for at home, I am making do with at the moment. Hmmm what 3 three items? I've been thinking about what I need to do to upgrade my winter wardrobe, and have 2 items in mind: a black ponte zip asymmetrical jacket and a black ponte dress. Too much black, too much ponte??
CocoLion, as mentioned above #4 was my attempt at something different. Never thought I would wear leggings again after having been there, done that, in the 90's. The tunic was an unplanned buy on holidays, at a higher price point then usual, and I have received many compliments on it. Note to self: must do this more often.
Cciele, am planning to buy a winter dress, the 1st time since forever - baby steps.
Jayne - you are right, trying to hide the apple middle. Have looked at empire line, I like the look just haven't found anything suitable yet.
So, once again thank you fabulous ladies, you've made this first wiw a great experience and given me lots to ponder.