Thanks all! It *is* what I was hoping for and a little more. The softer, more pretty and feminine look is a bonus.
Haven't done the wash and restyle yet. I think that will take some fooling around, as it will take a few styling moves and I haven't got any. But I think it will be ok. This morning I had a little freak out because all the definition had gone... Like, I had a head of black cotton candy (oh yum! haha!). However, a bit of scrunching and piecing it out, and it was all right.
I could have made it better than all right, but I was fumbling out the door to make poochie happy.
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Have to add, I did indeed bring old photos of myself. I think that worked out really well, showing the stylist what I'm dealing with here.