I've been noticing lately that many of the things I like, think I like, want to like...don't like me back. What I think of as my style may be way off.

Example: I've been shopping a lot at anthropologie. I feel so happy when I walk in. I gather up about ten things to try on that I think look really cool, but when I put them on I think they look completely wrong. I love them on the website, on the hangers, I just don't love them on me.

My "casual arty classic" may be way off base. Or living in the past. Or may be something I love on 20 something models and just wish I could love on me.

How do i find my authentic style, when the things I'm drawn to, aren't?