Sloper, so many good points in your post! I see you agree with what Sarah, Mary Beth and I said upthread about this being just one kind of duplication. I am certainly a duplicator when it comes to colors. The tools/undies analogy works IF you think of underpinnings as things that matter only in how they influence the final look. I don’t see why a useful hammer couldn’t be made of bronze and decorated with cut jewels. Finally, thanks for explaining Jenn’s analogy to me. The square pieces are extreme versions of the edges, and are analogous to the things people duplicate. Most people start a puzzle by getting them in order, because they’re easy and give a literal framework and start you on your way to the goal of a finished puzzle.
Jenn, I saw your comment on the blog after my first reply to you here. Is what I just said about your analogy correct, with your goal/finished puzzle being the ideal wardrobe? I’m surprised you count duplicates as one item, instead of taking the average price and counting each piece separately. If you do count individual “white T shirts” (because that seems to be the most common example of a thing to duplicate), how does it change your wardrobe numbers?
Anne, your statement “I enjoy dressing well every day”explains so much! I just had a great big lightbulb go off in my head. I’ve been reading “I like to make great outfits” when people might have meant “I like to make/have/wear great outfits<“. To borrow from corny old posters, it’s the difference between journey and destination. Unlike those posters/books/motivational speakers though, I don’t mean to tell people what they should value/enjoy; I’m just happy to see the distinction. As I’ve said before, what I like about YLF is it shows me ways to think about putting things together, so instead of just grabbing what my gut says to go with, I can think about it and figure it out. There is a process; and I can enjoy that activity. I mean, sure, it’s nice to wind up with an outfit that looks good, but that’s sort of a byproduct, iykwim.
A couple other analogies: my son had a great time fishing with his uncle & cousin recently. No one brought anything home, but they had a happy afternoon together. I have many happy memories of tending my dad’s rose bushes with him on summer evenings after dinner, but was always a little surprised at the praise visitors heaped on the roses. It hadn’t occurred to me that they were the point.
One counter-example: I recall getting testy at a conference once when a few people joined in with me and some others who were going to lunch, then some more, and more. I was happy to have the group, but instead of moving along towards lunch, they were standing there discussing the various options. I didn’t want to talk about going to lunch; I wanted to EAT.
The journey/process distinction also explains the differing thoughts on underwear. If the point is the final product, the outfit, what looks good in pictures, then it makes no sense to think about basics; they should hold up the load while disappearing quietly. I agree with not having lumps, lines, or colors show through, but putting on a pretty slip can make me smile as much as putting on the dress over it—it’s the process, as well as the end result of not having the dress stick to my tights.
Gaylene, I’m happy to have company on the bench! Thinking about it, I realize that it is just one person who admonishes me that this is a site for people who love fashion. She’s said it numerous times, but is still just one person. But I still don’t see why you’d take 3 of the same thing when you had so little space. I guess it didn’t matter to you if it looked like you were wearing the same thing every day. The point was to be pulled together and appropriate for the current activity; if you needed a certain shirt to do that, it might’ve been in the laundry. I still think I’d prefer 3 different shirts that were all that flexible. But that’s just me.
Gigi, we are all different. When I see a T-shirt that isn’t interesting, I don't think of substitutable parts—I think of lurking quirk, finding a way to make it interesting. Might be a lettuce hem, fabric with an interesting texture, or fancy stitching by the seams, but it makes the item feel special. Do you have those sorts of things, or does the duplication make them difficult?
Sally, a thrift shop is as non-duplicatey as you can get! I want to start thrifting when the pandemic is over, and will certainly have questions. I hope you’ll chime in.