Your comments are very interesting, I’m glad I started this conversation.
Runcarla : there’s a psychological element, yes, but fashion is more about sociology than psychology to me.
Environmental norms play a vital role. If I worked in a place where all women wore dresses, high heels, make-up...I’d probably feel awful being the only one in menswear. Actually I can’t think of a workplace with women all dressed feminine (a legal workplace I mean - we’re probably all more tomboyish than the previous generations?
La Pedestrienne : you’re probably right, but the feminist in me bristles at the idea that feminine means showing your body off *sigh*
Mirjana : thank you. I’ve just discovered that flannel shirts are as warm as cotton jumpers, and as I feel better in a shirt than in a jumper, I’ve found new love for them.
Emily K : we all have to trace our boundary between gender roles. Wearing golf shirts and chinos would be like crossing the boundary for me, too.
Lisa p : I understand, I share your fear. I had short hair for a decade. One day, a woman behind me in the supermarket said to the cashier, talking about me « le monsieur a oublié ça sur le tapis... » (= she called me « sir »).
I was shaken to the core. Decided on the spot to let my hair grow.
Janet : you make me realize I don’t make the association between hard edged and masculinity. I see your hard edged elements as rock chick.
I guess, for me, what’s associated with fantasy men (rocker, dandy...) is up for spoils, but what’s associated with real men on the streets (the golf shirts with chinos Emily spoke of) feels off boundary.