Suz, you look terrific in this color combination. It is such a darling outfit.
(Sorry for the long post, this is calling to me so much!)
Having the same complexion as you, I too find I am attracted to this color palette, and run into the same type of problem regarding: 1) what footwear to wear it with and 2) how to rock it despite my low contrast pale skin tone and hair.
Well, you have done a terrific job.
Booties are PERFECT! To me eye, not too busy at all.
Blush: ideal color for this look.
Looking at it on you I realize how our bonde complexion is actually an asset with such soft, pastel colors on winter fabrics: Your hair and light skin here completes the look. It evokes creamy, smooth, delicate, comfortable, sentimental and mellow, yet something juvenile, porcelain, fresh, healthy, happy.
Blush: go with soft but colorful items: orange, reds, pink, camel, or, inversely, mushroom taupe, soft turquoise, baby blue, cream... Here the scarf is simply impeccable.
It takes a very special state of mind to crave this soft look. It requires the right items and more specifically:
1) The right textures (leather/wool contrast) prevent the outfit to become too flat;
2) The right shades: colors with grey in it,
3) The right cuts: a cosy, roomy feeling, which you have rocking here with the jeans and somewhat with the grey top too.
I myself crave this look when I want to be flirty but still put forward my caring, soft side. When I want to be hugged. Was this the case for you?