Thanks all for weighing in!
In addition to seasonal reports and Gwen Stefani now on my tv each week, I think I see so many YLFers wearing cool [there's that word again] looks with loads of slouch or volume or FillinBlank that don't call to me that I'm wondering where to find a rabbit when I don't even own a hat.
I know we've had this discussion before about dressing in a way that feels right yet aware of time marching forward.
Why, it seems like only yesterday -- ok, 2 years ago -- that fitted felt just as "valid" a choice as loose...this year I feel like I'm in a Maidenform ad when I wear older tops.
Thimbelina and Janet -- Thank you...I'm trying, and hard! I have a long-standing love of drowning myself in fabric (waves to MsMaven's younger self) and taking the late great Bea Arthur in her Golden Girls years as a style icon. Not my best look. But then again, peach quilted hotpants weren't either and my 10 y.o. self thought they were awesome. Janet, I can tell you work from a core of modern classic, but your outfits end up much more on the "modern" side by the time you get done! Always fun to see you wearing them rather than vice versa.
BJ1111 -- Thanks for appreciating the edits to that crazy potato sack of mine. It's very maternity smock in person. Yes (or rather, "no") to lots of volume on the bottom here too -- though I like fit-and-flare pants. [O now I'm getting a Charo flashback!]
AG -- I know how good it feels to think "FINALLY! Designers have come to their senses!" Enjoy your moment while I white knuckle it!
CocoLion and MsMaven -- Thank you both for articulating the fluid vs volume issue and how body shape/bone structure can play into that. I think we have to keep trying the new stuff lest we miss out on something awesome!
And a big yes to the weight and drape of fabric...and I'm picky enough about that so it's kind of a pain to have to (over)think more. [MsMaven, the grey dress is a consignment find and 100% wool jersey. It hangs and moves so well!]
Coco and Suz, your flattery aside (thank you!) skinnies and I aren't BFF because I find the proportion issues oddly tricky. Seems like tops need to hit at one of two spots. Good thing uniform dressing doesn't bother me as much as others!
Suz -- I do love the ($12, eBay) tunic in #4. It's pretty slim through the torso, which helps a lot.
You always ask the tough questions, ha! Though I sometimes buy otherwise, my preference is for fairly streamlined boho luxe -- so super-delicate or luxurious-looking fabrics. So practical, I know. There may be fluttering or trailing or something like that, or just attention-grabbing print and color. A few inspiration examples below.
Caro -- Thank you! And good advice to check out what's around. I actually got *more* dissatisfied after window shopping/trying things on this time, but it made me stop and think about what I was willing to buy. And pay!
I actually went the pre-owned route for several things -- the brown cashmere and sweater vest (eBay, $30/each), both silk tops, the grey dress -- and saved a lot. So if I find something that calls later in the season I may be able to answer!