Hello, this is my first forum post!
As a newcomer to the forum I don't know you at all, so perhaps I can offer a bit more objectivity about the styles shown in your pics -- because my sense is that you've got your life situation (not so much personality) tangled up with your style moniker.
Describing you from the pics I see: pixie hair, petite frame, adorable smile
Describing your outfits from the pics I see: artsy, artsy, and again artsy. Many of the pieces look like they could be handmade because of crochet details, painted-type prints, bead earrings... and the pieces are unique, not the kind of thing you see in every retailer. Also, you are not afraid of color or texture, that vest is divine! And again, unique.
So a couple of moniker ideas for you:
Grown-up Bohemian
The Practical Artist
Someone else noted that the style moniker idea is most helpful as a shopping tool. I have found this to be true as well. It doesn't need to sum up your whole life and personality!