I've been noticing threads about items looking dated (in terms of length, cut, neckline, fabrication, etc.). But, sometimes I just can't tell whether something is dated. I usually look at an outfit and at whether the colors and proportions are pleasing, and am concerned less with how on-trend or classic it is.

Especially with the thrifting and hoarding (guilty!) that goes on -- what's the difference between looking dated (especially if said item looks still flattering) and doing your own thing, fashionwise?

Frankly, I'm getting to the point where I want to wear whatever I like, because this thing about trying not to look dated is a bit exhausting. Maybe this goes back to my mom, who has kept a lot of clothes (back to the 60s, and we're not talking about classic designer clothes, but normal everyday clothes) and still wears them -- and I think she looks fantastic because she's always coordinated and neatly dressed.