Scarlet, I implore you not to worry about this. You are only two months out, which for me was only the beginning of the toughest part of the recovery. While my damaged lady parts had pretty much recovered, and I'd had some time to adjust to new motherhood, my hormones were still going bananas and the flush of excitement from having given birth to a beautiful, healthy child had worn off. The "in earnest" recovery -- the psychological and hormonal adjustment -- had only begun, and continued for at least twelve months.
Your body can and will go back to very close to its former shape. Mine did. It is true that the hips can shift a little -- after all, the ligaments holding your pelvis together soften up during pregnancy and can slightly alter the shape of your hips -- and the weight you gained can affect body proportions, since as you lose it the excess fat, it may not come off straight away in the areas you gained it. But given enough time, the body normally readjusts.
I have observed, from my female friends and acquaintances who are also mothers (and most of them are, now), that the ones who left a fairly large gap between births were the ones who regained their former shape. One child normally doesn't permanently alter your figure all that much, but two or more children can -- but usually only if the babies were spaced close together. It seems that if I woman allows her body to completely recover between pregnancies -- about two years, I'd say, before giving birth and conceiving for a second time -- she has an easier time ultimately reclaiming her former shape.
Also keep in mind that a change in your body isn't necessarily a bad thing. Women's bodies are beautiful works of art, and one that bears the marks of having borne a child is a body to be proud of.
FWIW, my hips and waist did tighten back up -- a full twelve months after the birth of my first child. It was harder to gauge with the second one, since I also grew a massive fibroid during my second pregnancy which needed to be surgically removed four years later, by which time it had reached the size of a small cantaloupe. But now, a year after surgery, my belly is flatter than it has ever been and I am able to comfortably fit into pre-pregnancy pants. The body has a remarkable ability to heal.
