My wardrobe is packed with happiness, loudness, boldness, shine, colour, pattern, texture, nostalgia, exuberance, and fun-to-me items. But there are quiet neutrals too. A lot of dark blue and shades of white that temper the rest. Now that I finally have a capsule of versatile dressy pants, I am no longer bored with blue jeans in cold weather. I LOVE my wardrobe, and feel blessed to be in this zen state with it. It's the guaranteed stress-free component of my life.
Sooooo, I'm not sure I can relate, Helena, or I'm very obtuse and have missed the point - in which case I seek your savvy clarification!
Soooooo, I don't put pressure on myself to make every item a workhorse. That would not be fun for me - and fashion & style has to stay fun. I don't worry if I haven't worn something for a season or two, if I still like it. I don't have orphans because I can wear everything with jeans, mix all sorts of colours together, and no longer wear heels.
The ONLY item that I keep but do not wear, and don't want to wear because it's the fussiest item I own - is my jumpsuit. It's ridiculous but looks spectacular, as long as I don't move or need the loo....