interesting discussion. on the whole i didn't have much to say - until i read a couple of dissertante's comments:
"When I asked CS about the coat, they said it water resistant. "
The sole purpose of CS is to get you to buy. Period, end of story. They will tell you anything they think will make you buy. In my experience as a seamstress for decades, silk is not water resistant. They may have treated this silk, in which case the sheen and hand will likely be affected (ie, not so silky). Don't trust any info. you haven't ascertained for yourself in person.
Another point - a piece of clothing or an accessory can be impeccably made, of exquisite quality and still be quite fragile. CS didn't say it was sturdy or water "proof".
"Maybe it's the inability to wear heels/nice shoes that wants to overcompensate and get something nice? "
$200 and some shopping can get you truly outstanding, comfortable, well made shoes that you can wear every week for years and years. Frye, Born, Clarks, Fluevog, etc. - you can get dressy, biker, distressed, heels, flats, neutral, colors........
Take these Fleuvog boots. These particular ones will not be to everyone's taste - but 95% of ladies can wear a low-heeled, dark colored leather boot 2-4 times a week. A well made, comfortable pair will stand up to this type of use for 10-20 years (with care and periodic re-soling). These are $199 - Fluevog has regular, good sales.
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My advice, as a 49 year old with a voracious taste for excellent quality and who has always had a very limited budget - if you take your time and do your research, you can have a lot more style and use for your money. You can even have a handful of awesome, sturdy, high quality pieces and still have $1000 for your emergency fund (it isn't wise to underestimate life's ability to throw a monkey wrench at you). And i do agree that it's healthy to splurge regularly! I just define splurge as getting something truly unique and incredible - it doesn't have to involve spending a huge amount of cash. HTH!! steph
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