Adjectives and Monikers for Your Style

Every year I like to choose a few adjectives to capture my style goals and a short, memorable name for my personal style that I call my style moniker. You don’t need a moniker or a tidy list of adjectives to have great style. Your outfits can communicate who you are without any labels attached to them. Many people express their fashion preferences intuitively, guided by experience, comfort, practicality, mood, and what simply feels right from day to day. If thinking about adjectives or monikers feels stressful, unhelpful, forced or confusing, leave them off your style journey.

On the other hand, adjectives and monikers can be helpful and fun when you’re in the mood to reflect, refresh, or refine your style direction. They can help articulate what’s working, what you aspire to wear more often, and how you’d like your style to evolve.  

polished· relaxed · playful · classic · bold · quiet · colourful · current · refined · earthy · bohemian · sporty · retro · avant-garde · bombshell · romantic · soft · rock ’n roll · juxtaposed · eclectic · elegant · structured · unstructured · creative · witty · athletic · sassy · mischievous · modest · alluring · modern

Adjectives like the ones above can steer you toward choices that support your current sartorial preferences. They can can help you to make informed wardrobe editing decisions. And keep you grounded when shopping by providing a framework for evaluating new pieces. They can be inspiring and aspirational.

A moniker can feel like a tiny style superpower. Style is a creative expression of you and your context, and sometimes naming things sparks joy and amusement.

The process of choosing the words can be just as enjoyable as applying them. Your adjectives and moniker can shift with the seasons, your lifestyle, or your own curiosity. Nothing is set in stone.

Choose from three to five style adjectives, and a style moniker to go along with it. I use five adjectives that I’ve tweaked over the years. I will continue to wear outfits that are Modern, Crisp, Retro, Playful and Dressy.

Modern, because I enjoy injecting some carefully chosen trends into my seasonal look. That’s part of why fashion is fun. It keeps things fresh, and works well with my line of work.

Crisp, because I love wearing shades of white and clear brights, and have a strong need to create a fresh, professional and tidy appearance.

Retro, because of my fondness for fashion from the ‘60s, ‘70s and ‘80s, but remixing retro sensibilities with a good dose of current.

Playful, because it’s become important to me to wear outfits that are or have soft, amusing, sentimental, and nostalgic elements. This also reminds me to not take fashion and style too seriously, and to do my own thing.

Dressy, because super casual does not make me happy.

My style moniker is Urban Polish. I live in the city and walk almost everywhere in all sorts of weather with doggies in tow. I wear smart casual and dressy clothes daily, and comfortable shoes that go the distance. I am very neat, tidy, and organized by nature, so it’s important that my outward appearance exudes a high degree of polish. My moniker is like a personal style mascot, and a wink to myself each time I get dressed.

The most important thing is to keep style enjoyable, honest, manageable, practical, and filled with good energy. If adjectives and monikers boost your clarity or creativity, embrace them. If not, pass on the process. Over the years, the YLF community has engaged in many a delightful conversation helping Fabbers find their style adjectives and monikers. Feel free to ask for assistance on the forum if you’d like to get a head start. Feel free to share your own style adjectives and moniker in the comments section too.

Low Rise versus Low Slung

Low rise jeans and pants are not the same thing as low slung jeans and pants. Unfortunately retailers are careless with their descriptions and confuse the two. They can describe low slung bottoms as low rise bottoms, which makes searching for jeans and pants with lower rises a little useless. Just to confuse the issue more, low slung jeans and pants can have high rises. 

Low rise is built low. Low slung is worn low. Low slung is a styling choice and not a rise measurement. I’ll elaborate.

The rise is the distance from crotch point to top of waistband. The waistband is on or just below the hip bone and measures 6.5 to 8.75 inches in length. The intention of the design is to fit low when you pull them on. The pattern is drafted to sit low, meaning the waistband, pockets, and proportion of the garment are built for this placement. The visual effect is FITTED on the crotch point. The crotch point does not hang disproportionately low. Jeans in the late ‘90s and ‘00s tended to be low rise.

Low slung bottoms have higher rises than low rise bottoms. They are intentionally worn lower than their designed rise thereby creating a slouchy, relaxed, and oversized look. They are NOT FITTED on the crotch point. The crotch point hangs low, the pants slouch lower on the hips, and sometimes even lower than traditional low rises. You get the look by sizing up or choosing a relaxed cut so the jeans and pants drop on the hips and slouch. The “slung” part refers to the jeans hanging lower than the pattern intends. Low slung bottoms are on trend.

Low rise and low slung jeans and pants are generally not the easiest silhouettes to fit, style and feel fab in. In my experience dressing clients, low rises are easier to fit and wear when you are shorter in the rise and the silhouette isn’t tight on the legs. Low slung styles can be comfortable and dramatic, although you have to watch that the crotch point doesn’t hang too low, that the waistband doesn’t dig into your hips, and that the level of slouch fit is to your liking. Like I said, these are tricky fits.

Word and Colour for 2026

This is the seventh year that I’m choosing a word and a colour for the year. The tradition began with my fab friend and longtime YLF member Laura, who has been doing this for decades. She invited me to join her in 2019, and I haven’t looked back. Thank you, Laura! I treasure this meaningful ritual of ours, look forward to it every year, and happily encourage others to join the word and colour fun too. 

Pick a word that you want to hold close for the year. Take it to heart, and let it shape your actions. The right word can uplift, comfort, stretch, motivate, challenge and inspire you. Personally, I find the ritual meaningful because it encourages personal growth and reflection.It can help me break bad habits, and keep me focussed on small and big picture goals.

The colour I choose might be one I’m especially drawn to now, or one I’d like to welcome more intentionally into my life this year. It can come through in my style, our home, the environment, and other components of daily life.

Onto a word and colour for 2026

WORD: Nostalgia

Nostalgia is a sentimental choice, which symbolizes a sentimental year. Twenty years of YLF, thirty years of marriage, and a forty year high school reunion are some of the things that make me feel nostalgic about this year. Choosing nostalgia as my word is an invitation to revisit the people, places, adventures, things, fashion, style, and moments that shaped who I am, and to hold them close. It’s not about longing for a past I cannot return to, but about carrying the best of it forward. I want to savour meaningful memories, uphold traditions, amplify gratitude, and nurture connections that truly matter. In a way, it’s like coming full circle in life. I appreciate that although much has changed, a lot is the same and deserves celebration. I also want to remember more things about the important people in my life who have passed away. I worry I will forget these memories entirely if I don’t make an extra effort to keep them alive in my head and heart.

COLOUR: Sky Blue

To complement my word, I’ve chosen a nostalgic colour. Saturated sky blue is soft yet strong, fresh yet familiar, cool yet warm, and full of possibilities. It’s the colour of one of my pairs of specs, the colour of the header on the front page of YLF, the colour of our newly remodeled stairs, and other items in our home decor. The colour brings calm, comfort, clarity, and hope. I want more of that energy in my life this year. I look forward to tones of sky blue coming through in my style, our home, the beautiful scenery around us, and in an important work project that is close to completion.

This tradition is not about perfection, pressure, or sweeping resolutions. It’s a reminder to live with intention, and to stay connected to what feels meaningful. If you choose a word and colour for the year, I’d love to hear them. There is something special about cheering one another on, celebrating our choices, and watching them unfold over the months ahead.

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Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Team Burgundy or Team Brown

We’re kicking off 2026 with a poll. You bat for Team Burgundy if you prefer wearing burgundy to brown, and vice versa. Note that all types of very dark and deep reds count, including bordeaux, oxblood, wine and maroon. All types of browns count too, like toffee, cognac, whiskey, and chocolate. 

Burgundy has been an all time favourite colour on YLF. My clients much enjoy wearing it. Brown, and dark brown in-particular, is THE on trend colour of the season. Over the years, people have missed browns at retail (as well as other earth tones), and are pleased with their return. Both burgundies and browns are popular colour choices across wardrobe items. Today you pick a side, and I’ll go first.

I like burgundy, and have burgundy items in my wardrobe. They are older, in great condition, and I enjoy wearing them. My favourite suit is burgundy:

I have many more brown items in my wardrobe, especially in the toffee, cognac and whiskey spectrum of brown. I prefer wearing toffee and cognac to burgundy, which is why it’s more represented in my wardrobe. It’s lighter, more versatile with the colour palettes of my wardrobe, and a good match with my dark blonde hair. I bat for Team Brown.

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Over to you. Do you bat for Team Burgundy or Team Brown? Tell us why, and no batting for both teams. If you wear neither or can’t pick a side, you’re Team Bench. I’m serving Swiss chard and sweet and spicy peppadew chicken stew with hot crusty bread, onion and gorgonzola tart, and gluten-free white chocolate biscuits for dessert.

Happy New Year!

It’s 2026, which marks my thirty-fourth year working as a fashion and style professional. It also marks our twenty-third year of living in the US, and the twentieth year of YLF. I plan to celebrate two decades of YLF and my style consulting business throughout the year. My hope is to have YLF gatherings in Seattle, and in other parts of the US. Nothing has been planned yet, so stay tuned for details as I figure things out.

At the end of last year, I listened to an audio book, “Let Them” by Mel Robbins. It was recommended by a dear friend and I found it worthwhile. Very simply put, the book lays out a two-part mantra “Let Them, Let Me,” which encourages people to stop trying to control or change others because it’s a battle you won’t win. Instead focus on what you can control, like your reactions, boundaries, and choices. By shifting focus back to your own values, goals, and well-being, you build resilience, confidence, and a more intentional life, rather than being reactive to others. The book is full of very relatable stories, situations and emotions. I’m recommending it if the topic interests you, and you haven’t read it yet.

As always, I encourage you to sport a style that reflects your personality, sartorial preferences, values, lifestyle, and the weather. Prioritize comfort, what you enjoy wearing, and what makes you feel attractive and empowered. Let your signature style be the anchor that grounds your outfits. Nothing is dated when you and your outfit project confidence, ease, a pulled together look, and intention..

Wishing you a year filled with whatever gives fashion and style meaning in your life. May it bring good health, laughter, new adventures, enjoyable trips, memorable occasions, meaningful friendships, lots of YLF social gatherings, and mornings that begin with peace in your heart.