Be Kind To Yourself

Be gentle as you reflect about your style and wardrobe, and as you look in the mirror. Don’t dwell on the negative. Shopping mistakes are inevitable, and everyone has imperfections. You deserve the kindness. Extend it to yourself and to others too. 

Be Kind To Yourself

Practice self-acceptance and body shape neutrality. Identify strengths and realistically appraise capabilities. Embrace the things that make you unique, vulnerable, and eccentric. Give yourself a pat on the back for the things you are doing right. Laugh!

You can learn from mistakes, constantly improving and making better choices that positively affect you and others. Look for silver linings. Keep up positive self-talk. Compare but don’t despair. Keep fashion and style lighthearted. You are fab.

Grey as a Neutral

As a nod to late ‘90s fashion, grey is THE neutral of the season, and will be trending for a while. Grey is a mix of black and white, and a true or pure neutral. Pearl grey, battleship grey, pebble grey, steel grey or charcoal grey, it’s everywhere in every shade, and in every wardrobe item at the moment. Undies, swimwear, sleepwear, accessories, footwear and activewear included. If you enjoy wearing grey wardrobe items and need a refresh, stock up.

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Wool-blend Cape
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Tailored Twill Culottes
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Merino Wool Polo Shirt
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Longline VNeck Tank
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Tapered PU Trousers
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Bomber Jacket
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Ombré Scarf
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Grey Items

Most wardrobes have a neutral component because neutrals are grounding, versatile, and soothing. Grey can be an satisfying neutral if it suits you and your sartorial preferences. There are countless shades of it. Choose the shades of grey that work best for you, and make them the main or accent neutral of your wardrobe.

Grey items can be dressy or casual. Greys can work well as wardrobe essentials and wardrobe workhorses. Grey footwear can bookend grey or greying hair. If you like grey, but it doesn’t love you back, wear it as bottoms, accessories, or footwear away from your face. Grey is great in patterns too.

Grey as a Metal

Silver is grey and might be your metal of choice. Silver jewellery and hardware is tonally fabulous with grey clothing. Silver clothing, footwear, and accessories are trending too. Remix them with just about anything. Silver shoes and belts look great with silver hair. Feel free to mix metals if you enjoy gold as much as silver and pewter. By all means wear gold jewellery with grey wardrobe items.

Remixing Grey

Grey is one of the most versatile neutrals. It works well remixed with cool and warm colours. Greys are a slamdunk with classic black and white, and all sorts of greyed colours. Greys are excellent with navy too. They are great with pastel blues, pinks, lilacs, mints and lemons. Greys work well with jewel tones, brights, and are surprisingly splendid with earth tones. The right shades of grey work with every colour.

Signature Grey

Some of my clients wear shades of grey superbly well and it’s their signature neutral. These clients tend to have silver, or salt and pepper hair, which beautifully matches the grey in their outfits. Some stick to wearing their signature greys with black, white, and blues. Some add rich reds and burgundies to their black, white, and grey palettes. Others add a range of cool toned purples, lilacs, pinks, and blues to their signature grey.

Personally, I don’t wear grey because it neither looks good nor makes me happy. It doesn’t help that my primary school uniform was grey either. I made an exception when I bought a matching grey sweatshirt with a friend because the slogan appealed to us. By the time it was accessorized with my pearls and bright specs, I could live with the grey. Bright pants and a white crossbody help too.

I like grey on others. Hubs Greg is a blue-eyed and silver-haired person who wears grey, black and blue with the best of them. Maybe you have similar features are wear grey well too. Maybe your greying hair enjoys the repetition of grey in your outfits. Or maybe grey serves as a fabulous accent neutral for your outfits.

Over to you. Do you wear grey, and is it a donimant neutral in your style?

Outfit Formula: Shirt, Sweater Vest and Jeans

There are multiple ways to wear sweater vests or sleeveless pullovers. Layering a sweater vest over a collared button through shirt and popping the duo over a pair of jeans is an easy outfit formula. Add shoes, a bag to match, and Bob’s your uncle. A blouse can work as well as a shirt, if that’s more your thing. 

Here are four variations on the formula. Choose any colour palette.

1. Pattern Mixed

A blue and lemon pattered shirt is worn under a blue and white short and fitted sweater vest. The mismatched patterns clash, yet work because their blues unite them. The duo is untucked and worn with faded bootcut jeans. Silver cowboy boots are the shoes of choice, and work especially well under bootcuts. I see a white, lemon, silver, or blue bag.

Pattern Mixed

2. Oversized and Avant-Garde

An oversized and flowing light blue tunic shirt with puffy long sleeves and high-low hem is worn over wide leg dark grey or faded black jeans. A boxy and big grey sweater vest with high-low hemline tops the shirt. Grey and white athletic sneakers are the casual choice of shoe. A mismatched retro tomato red bag adds some punch.

Oversized and Avant Garde

3. Oversized and Bright

A big turquoise shirt is paired with a big teal, turquoise, and pink patterned sweater vest. The shirt is buttoned right to the top. A brooch would look nice on the top button too. The oversized duo graces wide, two-toned jeans. Turquoise shoes match the turquoise in the outfit. Add a bag that matches the palette or the colour of your hair.

Oversized and Bright

4. Variety

These outfits show a range of shirts and sweater vests worn with jeans. The sweater vests are fitted or fluid, with crew or V-necks. Shirts are white, blue, or blue and white stripes, but you can choose any colour that tickles your fancy. Most of the shirts and sweater vests are untucked, but some are tucked and completed with a belt. Jeans vary from wide legs and bootcuts, to relaxed straights, cuffed silhouettes, and boyfriend jeans. Shoes range from loafers and sneakers, to boots. Finish off the look a bag, jewellery, watch, and eyewear as desired.

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Weekly Roundup: Hints of Fall

Autumn collections are unfolding in the US. I see a lot of greys, dark greens, and chocolate brown. There are also earth tones, dark neutrals, and greyed colours aplenty. There are some pastels, jewel tones, reds, burgundies, and very few brights. I hope we see more colour variety soon.

The items below were winners on my clients. There are some unusual patterns and colour combinations that are well worth a look. Be sure to browse the colour and size options, and read the reviews.

See the collection page if you would like to see the items alongside the descriptions.

Sweater Vests: Yay or Nay

Sweater vests are sleeveless pullovers that are sometimes called knitted vests. They seem to waft in and out of fashion. And this season we’re seeing more of them because they’re having a fashion moment. 

They are made of the same types of yarn as knitwear. They can be chunky or fine gauge. Cabled or smooth. They come in any colour and all sorts of patterns. Fits are tailored, fluid, or oversized. Lengths vary from cropped and regular hip lengths, to tunic lengths. Necklines vary from funnel, turtleneck and crew, to boat neck and V-neck. Some have welts and others don’t.

This collection shows an assortment of sweater vests.

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Edie Fair Isle Tank
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Edie Fair Isle Tank
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Edie Fair Isle Tank
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Eva Cashmere Tank
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Eva Cashmere Tank
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Olivia Merino Tank
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Olivia Merino Tank
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Olivia Merino Vest
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Edie Fair Isle Tank
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Eva Cashmere Vest
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Chunky Knit Vest
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Argyle Wool Tank
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Patterned Vest
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Longline VNeck Tank
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Sweater vests can be worn on their own as a top, which can also be layered under jackets and other sweaters. Or they can be worn as a layer over a shirt, blouse, T-shirt, turtleneck, mesh top, or dress.

I’ve worn some type of sweater vest since the ‘70s and vote YAY. Sometimes I’m into wearing them, and sometimes less so. This year I’m in a sweater vest mood and added two to my wardrobe in fluid fits. The collection below shows the exact items.

Since I’m big on wearing collared shirts, I wear sweater vests over non-neutral. denim and white shirts the most frequently. Sometimes over patterned blouses. That said, the neon pink and toffee stripe looks gorgeous worn as a top on its own, and I plan to do that too. It’s fab under my new neon pink jacket. Unexpectedly versatile.

Over to you. Are you a yay or nay on sweater vests?