Outfit Formula: Contrasting Neutrals

These outfits are for Team Neutrals. Instead of combining dark neutrals from head-to-toe, the outfits are broken up by contrasting neutrals. There’s a bit of pattern too. In some examples the contrast is subtle and minimal, and in other examples more bold. The contrast can be close to the face, or at the bottom of the outfit. I’m including earth tones like olive, tan, and toffee as neutrals. 

1. Greys, Olive, White and Cream

Olive trousers are combined with a very dark grey and almost black polo sweater. The buttons of the sweater are left open so that a white tee can peek through, thereby creating a high contrast. A white tee layered this way gives the outfit a sporty and casual touch. Cream sneakers with dark gum soles add another contrasting touch and match the sporty integrity of the tee. A charcoal coat tops the lot. None of the neutrals are an exact match, and they all work together. Add a neutral bag that works with the palette.

Greys, Olive, White and Cream

2. Chocolate, Black, Tan and Cream

A chocolate skirt with black lace trim is combined with a chocolate turtleneck. Tall black boots match the black lace. A tan sherpa jacket with cream trim tops the lot to create a contrast. The tension between the dressy skirt and casual topper is right on trend. Add a neutral bag that works with the palette.

Chocolate, Black, Tan and Cream

3. Denim, Grey, Black, White, Tan and Chocolate

This outfit is interesting because the jeans, sweater and jacket are contrasting neutral items already. These items are combined into an outfit to create further contrast. A pair of dark blue cuffed jeans is combined with a grey-black-white striped sweater. Chocolate boots match the model’s dark brown hair. A tan jacket with black collar adds another level of neutral contrast. So does the furry scarf if it’s worn inside the collar of the jacket. Add a neutral bag that works with the palette.

Denim, Grey, Black, White, Tan and Chocolate

4. Black, Olive and Tan

A tan and black patterned skirt has an attached olive belt, which creates neutral contrast. It’s combined with an olive sweater which is exactly the same colour. It strengthens the high contrast look of the outfit. A black leather jacket tops the pairing. Tall black boots match the jacket and create a neutral contrast with the skirt. Add jewellery, bag, watch and eyewear as desired.

Black, Olive and Tan

Wardrobe Edits: A Refresher

I help people to edit their closets because it’s one of the fastest and most effective ways to make your style feel easier, clearer, and more you. Having edited countless wardrobes over the decades, I have a lot of hands on experience to share and have written about the topic from many directions. 

Here’s a quick summary and refresher course.

Alignment

Wardrobe editing is not about achieving perfection, owning a certain number of items, or dressing like someone else. It’s about honesty and alignment.

Your clothing, footwear and accessories should align with:

  • Your lifestyle and climate
  • Your body as it is today
  • Your sartorial preferences and style goals
  • Your need for variety

An edited wardrobe supports the way you live and how you want to feel when you get dressed.

Thoughtful Observation

Editing is not about getting rid of things for the sake of being streamlined and minimalist. It’s about making thoughtful decisions.

  • If you like or love something and wear it. It’s earned its place.
  • If you like or love something and don’t wear it, that’s good information. Figure out WHY and take action from there.
  • If something technically works but makes you feel flat, that’s good info too. Figure out whether it’s worth styling in an alternative way, or pass it on.

Editing is observational before it’s actionable. The observations create clarity and the way forward to a style that is fab-for-you.

Unworn Items

The reasons for items to go unworn or be infrequently worn have very consistent themes:

  • Fit is off
  • Colour is off
  • Fabric is off
  • Vibe is off
  • Uncomfortable
  • Fussy
  • Hard to launder
  • Needs pressing
  • Unsuited to my lifestyle, environment, or climate
  • Hard to style
  • Emotionally outgrown the look

None of these mean you’ve failed. Your current wardrobe is giving you feedback. Use it to create a future wardrobe that is more aligned with your style goals.

Earning Their Spot

A wardrobe edit isn’t about asking, “Is this good? It’s about asking, “Is this good for me?”

Items that are worth keeping tend to:

  • Get worn regularly
  • Get worn less regularly yet are fabulous when you do wear them
  • Feel comfortable
  • Feel authentic to your style
  • Make you feel AMAZING
  • Launder easily
  • Are versatile and easy to incorporate into outfits
  • Suit your climate and daily life
  • Make getting dressed easier, not harder
  • Align with your style goals

Sentimentality and nostalgia alone are not enough, but neither is ruthless logic and a need to be minimalist. Editing works best when your head and heart cooperate.

If you like a wardrobe item that fits, looks fabulous, and is in good condition, keep if you can store it. It doesn’t matter if it’s infrequently worn on this leg of your style journey. Chances are high it will come back into favour at some point when you style it in a refreshed way, or are simply in the mood to wear it again.

Regular Edits

Edits are not once-off events. Your style evolves. Your body changes. Your life shifts. Your preferences pivot. Your wardrobe and style needs to adapt to these changes, and are therefore a work in progress.

A successful edit doesn’t leave you with a finished closet. It leaves you with:

  • A better awareness of what you wear
  • Gaps to fill intentionally
  • Fewer impulse purchases
  • Increased outfit satisfaction

Editing once a year is helpful. Lighter, more regular edits are even better.

Sharpening Your Tools

When you remove what doesn’t serve you, the items that remain become more visible. Patterns emerge. Preferences clarify. Over-duplication is prevented. You see outfit possibilities more clearly. Shopping becomes easier and more deliberate.

Wardrobe editing isn’t about restrictions and rules. It improves self-knowledge. Your closet doesn’t need to impress anyone. It needs to support you, and make you feel good in the outfits that you draw from it daily. The goal isn’t to have a smaller wardrobe. The goal is a wardrobe that works.

Get The Tedious Tasks Done

January is as good a time as any to get all sorts of annoying wardrobe and beauty tasks done. They can be trivial and low-grade annoyances, but time-consuming and tedious nonetheless. And when small unattended tasks accumulate, they become a high-grade annoyance. Make a start by addressing one or some of them soon.

Get your alterations done. Sew on buttons. Change buttons. Get new eyewear. Fix old eyewear. Have a bra fitting. Clean your sneakers. Polish your shoes. Take footwear to the cobbler. Take items to the cleaners. Do the handwashing. Refresh loungewear. Refresh sleepwear. Refresh workout wear. Replenish underwear. Clean out cosmetic, nail polish, and make-up drawers. Fix broken drawers and shelving. Buy and insert drawer dividers. Clean dusty mirrors. Get an organizer for your handbag. Vacuum the floors of closets. Repack clothing. Get extra hangers. Swap out existing hangers. Dust off accessories. Put up hooks. Clean out the sock drawer. Pack away piles of clothing. Record your wardrobe expenses. Set a style budget. Create a digital representation of your wardrobe. Do the ironing, or get someone else to do it!

This list is by no means exhaustive. Feel free to add to it in the comments section, and share which pesky tasks you need to do or have already done. My make-up drawer could so with a clean-up, and my outdoorsy, cream lug soled boots need a deep clean. I will also get to work replenishing my undies.

Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Outfit Formula: Argyle

If you bat for Team Argyle like I do, you might be inspired by some of these outfit combinations. An argyle is a classic diamond-shaped design made up of overlapping or interlocking lozenges, often arranged in diagonal rows. It usually includes thin lines that crisscross the diamonds for extra detail. Argyles can be neutral or non-neutral, and large or small in scale. Knitwear and socks are popular vehicles for the pattern. Scarves, hats and hosiery too. 

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Onto outfit ideas. Remarkably, three of the looks remix argyle patterns with other patterns.

1. Doubled Up

A poppy and blush argyle twinset is combined with a pair of trousers in a tan pinstripe. A snakeskin belt adds the third pattern in the outfit. If you click on the photo, you’ll see that the outfit is completed with chocolate shoes that pick up the chocolate component of the belt. The tan bits across the patterns unite them, thereby creating a harmonious look. Maximally energetic.

Double Up

2. Socks

You might prefer wearing argyle in a smaller portion of your outfit, like socks. Argyle socks are playful and peppy, and can be interesting and insulating to incorporate into outfits. Here they make a statement because they are visible with cropped pants and loafers. A pair of chocolate cropped velvet pants is combined with a grey sweater, earthy brown plaid coat, and cream shoes. Grey, brown and cream argyle socks mop up the colours of the oufit. A chocolate brown bag matches the brown bottoms. Playfully earthy.

Socks

3. Scarf

Argyle scarves are another way to go. Here, an oversized teal and black scarf that functions as a wrap, is worn over a black top and matching black and teal argyle vest for warmth and a dramatic layered effect. The teal and black in the pattern of the pants complement the colours of the scarf. Thrown together chic.

Scarf

4. Top

Last, an asymmetrical sweater with exuberant sleeve in a navy and grey argyle is combined with a flared black leather skirt. The black skirt matches the model’s hair, which to my eye helps pull the look together. Burgundy boots and bag match the thin burgundy lines running through the argyle sweater. Elegantly dramatic.

My Mini Style Evolution

2025 was a year for comfortably settling into my style. I stress enormously about all sorts of things, but wardrobe management, shopping, outfit creation, editing and my beauty routine, are not among them. Fashion and style continues to be a guaranteed source of enjoyment and fun in my life. It’s an effective de-stressor, and I hope to keep it that way. I feel great about my style, and my wardrobe is in superb nick. I love my stuff, feel fabulous in my outfits, and am relaxed about all of it.

We moved back into our newly remodeled loft, compete with my dream walk-in-wardrobe. Our new dressing area has a window, a gorgeous view, and incredible light. We finally have a coat closet. That’s very handy when you live in the Pacific Northwest of the United States, which demands a large outerwear capsule.

There is nothing that makes me more cognizant of the contents of my wardrobe than when I have to pack up, and unpack it, in a short space of time. Because of the remodel, my wardrobe is particularly well edited, curated, organized, and stored at this point. The best it has ever been.

After growing out my hair from pixie to shoulder length, I can confidently say that I am not a long hair person. The longer my hair got, the harder it was to maintain and style daily, which I found frustrating. Turns out I dislike the feeling of hair on my neck. I cut my hair in stages, and settled on a bixie at the end of last year. After leaving my hair naturally dark blonde for years, I added highlights in front to change things up. My hair is much easier to manage at this length, which I wear wavy and straight. I’ve satisfied my curiosity, and will be keeping my hair short from now on.

Slowly, surely, and in just the right items, I added warm browns to my wardrobe simply because I was in the mood for it. Shades of toffee and whiskey complement my honey blonde hair so they integrate easily into my style. This is the most significant way my style has evolved. Shades of white, navy, and blue denim have been the core neutrals of my wardrobe for years. Toffee and whiskey have become the next layer of core neutrals. I leave black, grey and olive to those who enjoy wearing them.

It was easy to find the right brown items because brown is the biggest colour trend of them all. Chocolate brown has to be patterned or colour blocked with cream for it to be as enjoyable to wear as toffee and whiskey. I added three brown items of outerwear, a brown bag, belt, wide jeans, and three pairs of brown shoes to my brown capsule last year. Apart from the mules, every new brown item became an instant wardrobe workhorse. Remarkable.

The addition of the browns-for-me is unexpected. One of my friends suggested that I’m “in my brown phase” and I agreed with her. I didn’t think I would like wearing these brown items as much as I do. I find them easy to combine with my brights and neutrals, and a refreshing change. They also fondly remind me of my late earth-tone-loving Mama, who I keep close to my heart.

I recently modeled some brown-rich outfits and my new brown boots in the forum. I like wearing browns with brights, or navy and white.

I diligently set out to replace my old and well worn loungewear, which like all wardrobe basics are workhorses. I appropriately covered all seasons, and am pleased with the results. This year, I’ll tackle other wardrobe basics that need replenishment and replacement.

As for the rest, I view trends as optional accents rather than directives. The trends I pay closest attention to are how the silhouettes of bottoms change (or stay the same). If a trend tickled my fancy and complemented my style, I explored it. I leaned into my established preferences and honed my signature style. Dramatic bottoms, modern classic tops, some retro, white footwear, flats instead of heels, white pearls, gold as my metal, gold footwear, modest silhouettes, high necklines, dressy rather than casual, statement bag and eyewear, and high contrast combinations. Lots of whites and sour brights. Navy, not black. Clear nail polish. Remixing old with new. And my favourite American designer is Ralph Lauren, particularly their Polo label.

Here are more casual and dressy outfits. Some golden oldies. And the various outfits I can create with my holiday capsule, many of which I wear season after season because I do not tire of the items. I also wear many of the items throughout the year.

Style evolution doesn’t require upheaval or reinvention. It’s about honesty, adaptation, and following your feelings. When your wardrobe and style reflect your current values, lifestyle, personality, and sartorial preferences, getting dressed becomes an act of alignment and satisfaction, rather than effort. Here’s to another year of comfortably settling into my style.