Style Goals for 2025

My wardrobe is in tip top shape, and I’m very happy with my style. After years of soul searching and trial-and-error, it reflects my needs with honesty and precision. I can rely on my wardrobe to make me feel great and comfortable for every part of my life. From working with clients, going to parties and events, seeing friends, running errands, and working from home, to walking doggies, practicing yoga, cooking, going on outdoorsy adventures, traveling the world, sleeping, and lounging at home. It’s all covered and I’m a lucky fish.

2024 was a good editing and shopping year. I added new items, passed on others, ticked off items on my shopping list, found fabulous new bras, prevented delayed shopping disasters, and didn’t change the size of my wardrobe. Its moderate size works well for my lifestyle as a style professional living in a four-season climate. I am in full control of my wardrobe and love it. 

There were some changes. I switched to wearing dressy flat loafers more frequently than fashion sneakers because I’m in an even dressier mood, and have super comfortable pairs. My loafers work with most things in my wardrobe, and for at least nine months of the year. Long length pants and jeans have made them easier to wear in colder weather too.

I reached my hair goal after growing it for three years from a super short pixie. I finally have shoulder length hair in my natural colour. I stopped highlighting it three years ago too. It’s dark blonde with no grey. To my surprise, I like the natural colour of my hair. I find it versatile because I can wear earth tones more easily, as well as my usual palette of white, navy, sour brights, and a few pastels.

I’ll keep my hair shoulder length for a while because the dramatic change was a slog to grow out. I need to enjoy the fruits of my efforts! Hubs Greg much likes the long hair change too. Unfortunately, I don’t enjoy the daily upkeep and styling of long hair. It’s time consuming and fussy, and I’m not sure it’s worth it. It’s much easier to style short hair, especially when you’re outside in the elements a lot like I am. It’s a trade-off though. I need haircuts every six weeks with a pixie, but can go months without seeing my hairstylist with long hair.

At some point in the Spring we’ll move back into our fully renovated loft complete with a bespoke and beautiful walk-in-wardrobe. I’m very excited to organize and store our wardrobes in their new spaces.

For the eighth year in a row, I’m keeping the same style descriptor and the adjectives that describe my aspirational style. The older I get, the more set in my ways I am with my style and sartorial preferences. I love trying something new, yet the comfort and confidence I derive from my signature looks and the “tried and tested” gives me the most pleasure, energy, and calm.

Urban Polish

I live in the city, walk almost everywhere in all sorts of weather with doggies in tow, wear smart casual and dressy clothes daily, and extremely comfortable shoes that go the distance. I am very neat, tidy, and organized by nature, so it’s important that my outward appearance exudes a high dose of polish.

Modern, because I enjoy injecting a few carefully chosen trends into my seasonal look. That’s part of why fashion is fun, keeps things fresh, and it works well with my line of work.

Crisp, because I love wearing shades of white and clear brights, and have a strong need to create a fresh, professional and tidy appearance.

Retro, because of my fondness for fashion from the ‘60s, ‘70s and ‘80s, but remixing retro sensibilities with a good dose of current.

Playful, because it’s important to me to wear outfits that are or have amusing, sentimental, nostalgic and fun elements. This also reminds me to not take fashion and style too seriously, and to do my own thing.

Dressy, because super casual does not make me happy.

Goals

My high level goal is to to carry on doing what I’m doing. Many of my style and wardrobe decisions, strategies, and processes have become internalized habits that are intuitive and on autopilot.

I do also have a few specific goals:

  • Add dressy cream pants, and replace old white bottoms.
  • Add orange wardrobe items because it’s my colour of the year.
  • Embellish my high Summer wardrobe because our Summers are longer than they used to be. That means more sleeved midi and midaxi dresses, and cotton co-ords.
  • Add dark blue slim straight leg jeans.
  • Replace the lenses in my sunglasses with a new progressive prescription.
  • Add dressy red trousers to replace a worn out pair.

Please share your style goals in the comments section. I’m sure they will be interesting and inspirational to others, and I look forward to hearing them.

A Word and Colour for 2025

This is the seventh time I’m choosing a word and colour for the year. The tradition started with my lovely friend and YLF member Laura, who has done this for decades. She invited me to do the same in 2019 and I haven’t looked back. Thanks, Laura! I love our tradition, and have encouraged close friends to join your word and colour party. 

Choose a word to keep top of mind for the year. Take it to heart, and act on it. It can be motivating, therapeutic, satisfying, and challenging. Personally, I find it a worthwhile exercise because my word helps me learn and grow as a person. It helps me to break bad habits, and keeps me focussed on small and big picture goals.

The colour I choose can be one I’m liking more at the moment, or a colour I want represented more strongly in my life this year. It can come through in my outfits, our home, our setting, and in the natural beauty that surrounds us.

Onto a word and colour for 2025:

Word: Progress

I’m focussing on PROGRESS, and more specifically, how I can facilitate the progress of things going on in my life. The progress and completion of our loft remodel is all important after living in a rental for almost a year. A very close friend had an extremely tough year fighting cancer and enduring treatment. Her progress to a full recovery is top priority. The progress and completion of some work projects are high on the to-do list. I’d like my relationships with certain people to progress and blossom to the next level. That means making the time to see old friends more frequently, and getting to know new friends better. I’d like to see some family members going through stressful situations make progress on those fronts too.

Colour: Orange

Bright orange, and specifically Dutch orange, is a colour that I love to wear and see around me. I like orange in nature, and in home decor. I like orange scented things, and love the flavour of oranges in food. I have a fair bit of orange in my wardrobe (shown in the collection below) and there is room for more. I find bright orange versatile, empowering, and uplifting. I like wearing orange with neutrals like navy, denim, cream, white, toffee, and chocolate brown. I also like wearing orange with tomato red, burgundy, and shocking pink.

Over to you. Join us in choosing a word and colour for the year. Share them in the comments section when you have a moment. I’m looking forward to hearing them.

Outfit Formula: The Burgundy Statement

Burgundy, or shades of dark red, are popular on YLF and especially in Winter. So we’re kicking off the new year with an outfit formula that incorporates ONE burgundy item. The item makes a statement in a pattern or solid. Support acts are for the most part neutral, but feel to make them non-neutral too. 

1. Top

A burgundy sweatshirt with embroidered sleeves is partially tucked into wide blue jeans. Dressy animal print boots add a glam touch. They match the cognac belt, and pick up the shades of brown and gold in the model’s hair. Add a bag that matches the palette.

Top

2. Dress

A burgundy patterned midaxi shirtdress is combined with a long fluid blazer in a brown herringbone jacquard. The pattern is very subtle and reads like a false plain. It complements the tan and taupe components in the pattern of the dress. Off-kilter tan haute hiking boots create interesting tension with the dressy frock, and match the colours running through the patterns of the clothes. Add a bag that matches the palette.

Dress

3. Skirt

An A-line burgundy cargo midi skirt is combined with a fluid grey sweatshirt with asymmetrical front knot detailing. The genius knot detailing shortens the top, which creates structure by showcasing the contour of the hips and waist. The shorter top also lengthens the leg line from the waist upwards. Black heeled mules match the model’s hair and the piping in the sweatshirt. A neutral cream bag adds lightness to the outfit.

Skirt

4. Outerwear

A burgundy coat makes a smashing statement. If burgundy is a favourite colour, get a topper or two in it. Here, a plaid skirt with a burgundy component is paired with a tucked navy sweater. Feel free to make it black. A teal cardigan is layered over that, which works tonally with the teal in the pattern of the skirt. Stompy black boots match the navy and black in the outfit. A burgundy coat tops the lot, and matches the plaid. Its dark buttons match the dark neutrals in the outfit. Add jewellery, bag, watch, headgear and eyewear as desired.

Outerwear

If burgundy puffer jackets and coats paired with blue jeans, black bottoms, or grey pants are more your thing, here’s some inspiration.

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Darla Puffer
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Roundups

Simpler Items

This week's list of top picks list is about basic pieces.

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Assorted Items

Items for Summer, both in and out of air conditioning.

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Casual Summer Vibes

This week's top picks are good for a casual Summer vibe.

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Summery Earth Tones

These items are for those who like to wear casual earth tones in warm and hot weather.

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Hints of Spring

Some tried-and-tested winning items to refresh your style for Spring.

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Dressier Items

An assortment of dressier top picks might be just what the doctor ordered.

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Neutrals and Your Style

Black, white, and grey are pure neutrals. Absent from the colour wheel because they are absent of colour. In a strict sense, they are the only true neutrals. They are versatile, graphic, and can feature heavily in your wardrobe if they suit your complexion. 

Choose Your Neutrals

In fashion, quiet colours like dark blue, browns, creams, tan, and taupe, olives, and blue denim are neutrals too. Most earth tones are considered neutrals because they are found in nature. Fashion neutrals are better suited to many complexions than pure neutrals.

Some non-neutrals are so versatile to you that they function like a neutral in your wardrobe. These are personal neutrals. Colours like burgundy, eggplant, blush pink, red, burnt orange, or metallics can be “neutral” for you, and non-neutral for others.

Fabulous Style Quotes

Following my new year’s wish for you — to dress honestly — here are some fantastic quotes that bring it home. Great style is about authenticity, creativity, and confidence. It is about you, more than anything else. All of these quotes convey that sentiment in their own way. 

Real style is never right or wrong. It’s a matter of being yourself on purpose. – G. Bruce Boyer

Fashion is about dressing according to what’s fashionable. Style is more about being yourself. – Oscar de la Renta

Style is the art of self-expression. It’s about saying who you are without words. – Orson Welles.

Fashion is what you’re offered four times a year by designers. And style is what you choose. – Lauren Hutton

Fashion you can buy, but style you possess. The key to style is learning who you are, which takes years. There’s no how-to roadmap to style. It’s about self-expression and, above all, attitude. Iris Apfel

The best color in the whole world is the one that looks good on you. Coco Chanel

I believe in wearing what makes you feel beautiful, not just fashionable. Grace Kelly

Fashion is just something money can buy. People who are stylish are free and have no fear in staying true to themselves. Marc Jacobs

Character. Intelligence. Strength. Style. That makes beauty. Diane von Furstenburg

Personal style is about having a sense of yourself, and what you believe in every day. Ralph Lauren

Style is a reflection of your attitude and your personality. Shawn Ashmore

It’s important to find what really suits who you are, because style isn’t only what you wear, it’s what you project. Carolina Herrera

I believe style comes from within. It’s about having a sense of who you are and staying true to that. Stella McCartney

Create your own style. Let it be unique for yourself and yet identifiable for others. Anna Wintour

What’s my style is not your style, and I don’t see how you can define it. It’s something that expresses who you are in your own way. – Iris Apfel

If you love something, wear it all the time. Find things that suit you. This is how you look extraordinary. – Vivienne Westwood

Remember that a personal style that makes you feel comfortable and happy, and is an authentic expression of who you are, will also make you feel more confident when you present yourself to the world. That confidence, in turn, will make you look and feel more attractive. Find the factors that contribute most to your confidence, and fine-tune them as you progress on your style journey.

I’ll leave you with this quote from yours truly:

Style is confidence. Express your energy and attitude through your clothing, footwear, accessories, and grooming. Express it with ease and confidence, and you will have style. Angie Cox