The body type “balancing act”

Well dressed people always dress according to their body type. Despite seasonal trends and despite what you like and what you don’t like, that which you choose to wear needs to be flattering for your shape at all times. Maintaining “a sense of balance” is key to a happy life – the same principle applies to dressing:

Creating a balanced body shape is fundamental to having great style.

The reality is that very few people have perfectly proportioned bodies. We can either mope around and wish that we had a different body; or we can dress appropriately and streamline our lovely bodies to create balance! But before that you’ll need to ascertain which body type you tend towards irrespective of our height. There are 5 main body types:

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  • Pear – when the width of your torso is smaller than the width of your hips. You’ll constantly want to balance the difference between the top and bottom part of your body
  • Hourglass – when you are well proportioned with a shapely bust and defined waist. You’ll always want to strive to look taller and slimmer
  • Rectangle – when you are well proportioned and relatively lean but lack curves. You’ll want create a bust and those curves to keep you feminine.
  • Apple – when you are well proportioned but with a little bit of extra around the middle. You’ll want to create shape and disguise your midriff
  • Inverted Triangle – when the width of your shoulders and torso is wider than the width of your hips. You’ll want to soften your shoulders and perhaps your bust line, and add volume to the lower part of your body

Once you know which body type you tend towards, you’ll need to know how to select clothes that bring you balance. This is not seasonal knowledge. Once you have it, you’ll be able to apply it for a good length of time. I have plenty of information to share on dressing for each body type and I’ll be sharing it in future posts. In the meantime, balance your beautiful body and celebrate!

Contradictions are choices this Spring

Choices for this Spring/Summer season are plentiful. There are lots of options for everyone; many of them seemingly contradictory. Let’s have a closer look at what you can wear to be “in style” this season:

  • Gold and silver
  • Black and white
  • Neutrals and primary colours
  • Elegant lady-like suits and combat gear
  • A-line skirts and pencils skirts
  • Natural waists and low waists
  • Ruffle blouses and t-shirts
  • Stacked heels and ballet flats
  • Pointy toed shoes and round toed shoes
  • Skinny pants and wide pants
  • Shift dresses and shirt dresses (a-line dresses that tie at the waist)
  • Above the knee hemlines and knee lengths
  • Oversized totes and delicate clutches
  • Long bead necklaces and short choker styles  

All you need to do is make some savvy decisions as to what will suit your body type, skin tone, lifestyle and budget and there you go – you’ll look fab.

Embrace the variety – a season encompassing such versatility does not come around very often!

“To dry or not to dry”; that is the question

Tumble dryers are a marvelous invention, but unfortunately they tend to ruin our clothes. Our clothes shrink, loose shape and start to look worn long before they should. Clothing is relatively expensive and in order for us to look sharp and polished, it needs to remain looking pristine. Boxer shorts, undies, socks and pajamas are basically the only items that are going to survive a life of harsh tumble dry heat I’m afraid.

So what are the alternatives?

  • Invest in a collapsible garment rack (Target and Storables offer super options) and hang shirts, blouses, tops, pants and jeans on it to dry
  • Invest in wire shelving and lay your t-shirts and hand washed knitwear flat onto it to dry shaping them where necessary
  • Men’s shirts, smart dresses, suits and jackets will need to be dry-cleaned 

Once dry, you’ll have the choice of either ironing your clothing; or popping them into the dryer for a quick 7 minutes to get rid of creases that remain. The trick with the latter is that you’ll need to fold the garments immediately after taking them out of the dryer in order to prevent them from creasing again.

It certainly is going to take more effort caring for your clothes in this way – but the end result will be worth it. Have a bash at forming this new habit of drying your clothes and enjoy the fact that your clothing is the same length and colour as it was the day you first bought it. Trust me – your clothing will stay looking fab!

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Garment rack from Target

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Avoiding “the Black Rut”

Ladies and gents – beware of what I call “the black rut”. Despite the fact that black items of clothing tend to make one feel slimmer, smarter and possibly even more powerful; black is not a colour- it is the absence of it. Black items of clothing, accessories and shoes certainly have an important place in anyone’s wardrobe, but such items need to be put together “with style”. Ending up with a cupboard full of black clothing is easy to do – especially with the strong rebirth of neutral tones that is happening right now.

So how can we successfully wear the colour black?

  • Black looks it’s absolute best when worn with one, or a combination of neutral tones (e.g. white, grey, cream, tan, gold, silver, bronze and brown)
  • When wearing black with a colour, be sure to add another neutral tone to the ensemble – it looks less dated that way
  • It isn’t easy to look good in black when worn from head to toe, but it can be done. Make sure that each item of the outfit is of a different texture. The trick is “add dimension” and avoid “looking flat”. Consider adding subtle self color pinstripes, lace and feathers (if you are a lady), surface-interest fabrics and sheen. Prada and Donna Karan specialize in creating this 3 dimensional all black look and they do it very well.
  • Black items need to be very black! As soon as they start to lose their colour – the overall flattering effect is lost
  • Refrain from wearing black all the time. It has the power to “drain” one’s appearance. Remember to alternate with other colours that suit your skin tone

It’s therefore a fallacy that “black goes with everything”. It’s actually the one neutral tone that doesn’t!

Donna Karan does black

Donna Karan does black with neutrals

You can embrace Neutrals this Spring!

Spring trends are all about neutral tones – white, black, brown, navy, beige, cream, silver, gold, bronze and denim. If you have previously been one to wear lots of colour like I have, and have suddenly found yourself at a bit of a loss as to what to do – don’t despair! Red, green, yellow and lilac will start to appear in stores soon if it hasn’t already. In the mean time:  

  • Liven up your neutrals by mixing them up (not just sticking to one) and adding the newness of the season with metallic accessories eg. bag, belt , shoes
  • Throw in last seasons beautiful grass green or turquoise bag while keeping those shoes metallic – you’ll still look updated. Remember that those days of matching your shoes, bag and belt are gone
  • Add a colourful necklace to kick your neutral outfit up a notch. Consider gigantic plastic beads either around your neck or on your wrist – they are the accessory of the moment
  • Throw in a stronger shade of lipstick like red, cherry or dark mauve – it will make you feel less monochromatic, but still trendy

If you have always been one to embrace a neutral palette, this is your season – enjoy it!