How to Wear Brown with Grey Hair

Brown is the biggest fashion colour of the season, and there is an abundance of it at retail. Some people think you shouldn’t wear brown with greying or grey hair, but I disagree. All sorts of complexions can wear brown with panache. Many of my grey-haired clients and friends rock browns, and are happily adding fashionable browns to their wardrobe.

Hubs Greg is a “Cool Summer” to use traditional colour analysis terminology. He has a gorgeous head of silver hair with bright blue eyes, and wears dark cool-toned browns and greyed brown clothes beautifully. He wears warm-toned cognac shoes and belt with verve too. In fact, I think Greg looks nicer in dark brown than he does in many greys. Grey can look spectacular, but it can also look dull. This morning I saw a silver haired man wear a cool-toned chocolate brown suit with a navy tee and cognac complement of belt, body bag, and shoes. He wore tortoise shell sunnies and looked KILLER.

If you have silver hair and want to incorporate brown into your outfits, here are some guidelines:

1. The Right Browns

There is a brown for everyone. Choose the right tones and shades for your complexion and wardrobe. It might be cool-toned, warm-toned, lighter, darker, brighter, or greyed. As a silver haired person, cool-toned browns can work well in items of clothing. Sometimes a saturated dark brown or very greyed chocolate brown works best.

2. Specific Items and Small Quantities

If brown tops and toppers are too much of a commitment, wear dark brown bottoms and dark brown accents like bags, belts, and shoes. Don’t make dark brown the dominant dark neutral of your wardrobe unless it really tickles your fancy. Create a small capsule or complement so that the neutral is easy to integrate into pulled together outfits. That way you prevent abandoned brown because you have items to wear with it.

3. As Patterns

If solid browns are problematic, wear dark brown in patterns. Maybe brown textured false plains are a better option than solid brown. Again, keep the brown component of your wardrobe small unless you’re entering a fabulous brown phase in your style journey.

4. With Other Neutrals

Dark brown is versatile. Wear it with the other dark and light neutrals like black, dark blues, all sorts of greys, all sorts of whites, taupe, tans, and olives. It works well with blue denim too. If you have blue eyes and grey hair, wearing navy and blue denim with brown is especially effective.

5. With Your Best Colours

Wear dark brown with your favourite and best colours. Maybe it’s jewel tones, other earth tones, pastels and mid-tones, or sour brights, blues and whites, berry colours, greyed tones, or clear brights. Incorporating colours in an outfit that make you look and feel your best creates outfit happiness. Maximize that feeling with the addition of brown.

Of course, if wearing any kind of brown makes you feel sad – PASS. Say no thank you, and leave it at that.

Although my hair is dark blonde, I relate to feeling unhappy when wearing dark brown, which lasted for decades. However, out of the blue a couple of years ago I began liking it. I started adding dark brown items in small quantities to my wardrobe with VERY specific stipulations. No solid dark brown, but patterns, colour-blocked detailing, and false plains are good. As for wearing solid brown, I stick to brighter orange-y browns like whiskey, cognac, and gingerbread.

Over to you. Do you have greying and silver hair, and do you wear brown? If so, what types of browns do you like to wear, and how do you style brown in your outfits?

Thoughts on Return Policies

Bloomingdales, which is one of my favourite stores in the US, recently changed their return policy. The window for returning most unused items changed from 90 to 30 days from date of purchase. For some items it’s 14 days, and for others it’s final sale. 

At first I thought 30 days was drastic, and not customer-friendly. However, over time I have changed my mind. I think it’s a reasonable window for an in-store purchase and return, but a little tight for online orders (especially international ones). It can take up to two weeks for a package to arrive, and longer when something has happened to it or it’s over the holiday season. It takes a while to return items through the mail too. And you need a day or two to think about whether you want to keep an item. I’d prefer online orders to have a longer return window. Maybe that’s unreasonable, but it takes some of the stress off the purchase.

In the US, we have long return windows for items bought firsthand, even when they’re on sale. We are very spoiled with free shipping and lenient return policies. Items on very deep discount can be FINAL SALE, which seems fair. Secondhand items are often not returnable, although you can resell them.

Return policies are much more strict in other parts of the world. Sometimes there isn’t an option to return and get a refund. An exchange or gift receipt may be offered, or nothing at all. Comparatively, this makes Bloomingdales’s new return policy look stellar. It depends on what you’re used to, I guess.

Make sure you’re familiar with the retailer’s return policy when buying items that are deeply discounted. Prices can be too good to be true, especially when you think you can return the item. It’s frustrating when you didn’t realize your purchase was final sale, and the item did not work. I learned that the hard way.

Over to you. What are return policies like in your neck of the woods? Do you think that a 30 day return policy from date of purchase is fair?

Outfit Formula: Grey, Brown and Blue

Right now grey is taking a backseat to make room for chocolate brown, and lighter browns like toffee, whiskey, cognac and cinnamon. But if you enjoy wearing grey, try wearing it with a shade of brown. To cool down the palette, add some blue. Blue jeans count as the blue component of the outfit. 

Think of ways to combine grey with brown and blue with items in your wardrobe. The colour you like the least can be subtly represented in the outfit. Amplify your favourite colours. Onto some outfit inspiration.

1. Grey Trousers

Here, a pair of on trend wide, slouchy pleated trousers is combined with a tucked light blue shirt. A woolly toffee bomber creates the brown component, along with a gingerbread bag. While sneakers add a Sporty Luxe touch. Feel free to sub the sneakers for cream or brown boots. Maybe tan or gingerbread shoes too.

Grey Trousers

2. Jeans with Dark Green

Blue jeans create the blue component of the outfit. The grey graphic tee creates the grey. A whisky complement of pumps, belt and bag creates the brown, which picks up the brown in the graphic of the tee. A dark green leather blazer is the unexpected topper of choice, thereby adding another colour. It picks up the dark green in the graphic too.

Jeans with Dark Green

3. Argyle

These outfits are big on the blue and grey component, and very subtle on the brown. The outfit on the left is from H&M, and it combines a chocolate brown turtleneck with a navy and grey argyle cardigan that’s buttoned through like a top. There’s a very narrow chocolate brown stripe in the argyle cardigan too. The navy, grey and brown are mismatched with a flared plum skirt, which is so dark, it passes for chocolate brown. Black loafers match the model’s hair, and grey socks match the grey in the cardigan. A chocolate brown bag matches the turtleneck. The outfit on the right is from ASOS, and it combines slouchy grey jeans with a grey and light blue buttoned through argyle cardigan. A tan sweater is draped over the model’s shoulders like a scarf, and cinnamon loafers create the brown component of the look.

4. Pattern Mixed

The blue is this version is very subtle. There is a smattering of it in the pattern of the sweater set, and that’s it. For the rest, a brown plaid wrap skirt is combined with a grey fair isle twinset. The brown in the fair isle connects it to the brown plaid. Tall brown boots amp up the brown in the outfit, and work well with the model’s brown hair. I see a brown or cream bag complete the look.

Pattern Mixed

5. Grey Knitwear

These outfits from & Other Stories are heavier on the grey component of the palette. The outfit on the left is heavy on the blue component too. It combines a pale blue button down shirt with a pair of faded blue jeans to create a column go light blue. A white tee is layered under the shirt. A boxy pale grey cardigan is worn over the column of blue and semi tucked a little to showcase a chocolate belt. A chocolate bag matches the belt. A black, cream and toffee scarf complements the palette. I see white, black or brown shoes complete that look. On the left, similarly, a light blue shirt is layered under a fitted pale grey pullover. The pairing tops a chocolate skirt which matches a chocolate bag. The same black, cream and toffee scarf is tied to the bag and works with the palette. I see brown, cream, or black shoes complete the look. Add jewellery, watch, and eyewear as desired.

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Trend: Horse Themes

You may have noticed horse-themed clothing and outfits in stores. It’s a fringe trend, although a bigger one than I expected it to be. There are horse and pony graphics and patterns on clothing and scarves. Nods to both western and classic British riding are abundant. There are riding boots, western boots, and pony skin patterns. There are horse bits on shoes and handbags. Stirrups, snaffle bits, horse shoes, and horse heads on jewellery. Western jackets, puffer vests, and tailored riding jackets in the topper category, and horsey belts too. The collection shows examples of the trend.

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Wedge Cowboy Boots
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Pleated Belted Skort
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Ruffled Skort
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Belted Long Shorts
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Horse Sweater
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Horse Pendant Necklace
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Horsebit Loafers
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Horseshoe Sweater
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The idea is to remix horse-themed items into any style. It’s not as much about dressing like an equestrian from head-to-toe (although that’s smashing and feel free to do that too) as it is to remix horsey elements into a non-equestrian look. Like wearing riding boots with dresses and skirts. Wearing western boots and jackets with anything. Combing riding jackets with wide legs. Sporting horse sweaters, sweatshirts and tees with swooshy skirts. Making horse bit loafers your “sneakers”. Adding pony patterned footwear to outfits. Pairing a horsey blouse with barrel jeans. Sporting a horsey scarf with a denim shirt and dressy trousers. Pattern mix.

I LOVE this trend. As an ex-equestrian and huge horse Iover, I’m wildly attracted to all things horsey. I’ve been building my horsey-capsule for years, and will wear horse-themed items despite the trends. These are the items in my capsule so far, many of which are older. I intend to embellish the capsule as I bump into the right item now that there is more to choose from. A snaffle bit gold bracelet is very welcome. So is another pair of jodhpur jeans or pants, a horsey sweatshirt, and white western boots.

Over to you. What do you think of the horse-themed trend?

Team Sneakers or Team Boots

As colder weather approaches in the northern hemisphere, shoes with coverage are the order of the day. You bat for Team Sneakers if you prefer wearing sneakers to boots, and vice versa. Note that any type of sneaker counts. Athletic, fashion, low profile, chunky, hi-tops, or a sneaker hybrid. Hiking, western, snow, and rain boots count as boots.

I wear sneakers and boots, but boots much more frequently than sneakers. I have many pairs of boots and a few pairs of sneakers. For me, a comfortable pair of flat or very low heeled boots is more comfortable than sneakers. Boots can be casual or dressy, which I find versatile. That said, most of my boots are dressier because I’m dressy at heart, and sneakers are casual. I bat for Team Boots.

Over to you. Do you bat for Team Sneakers or Team Boots? Tell us why, and no batting for both teams. If you can’t pick a side, or wear neither, you’re Team Bench. I’m serving Korean tofu with fennel and carrots, cauliflower and jasmine rice, a crisp green salad, and South African milk tart for dessert.

My guess is that Team Sneakers will win this poll. Sneakers are THE shoe of our current fashion era. There are more sneakers on the street than any other form of shoe. Even in Seattle, where people love wearing boots.