Sorry to hear about the rescue dog biting problem. My bf has a rescue dog and one of our dogs came from a border collie placement service (the unwanted ones go through this service) so even though he was just 4 months old, he had grown up in a trailer laundry room and has so much fear, still, at almost 7 years. And my bf's dog has bitten me so hard, I don't even know where to start. But we are still keeping them. We just have to keep them all safely crated when company comes. Otherwise, it's actually good having some suspicious biter dogs for the unwanted company. Our other two dogs are Labs and would let themselves be kidnapped for nothing more than a kind glance not to mention any kind of treat. So the biters have their place, they are truly the watch dogs for us. It's just all about managing them properly. Of course I live in a rural area with lots of warning when someone arrives, so it might be different for someone who lives in a more densely populated area.
I am sorry about your ailing mother but so happy you are celebrating your DD's birthday (it's my Mom's birthday tonight too) and a future wedding! I do miss you here. I love this outfit and you are so tall and gorgeous you look like a J Crew model here. You just wear those ankle pants like no one else.
As far as the shoes go, I haven't owned a pair of boat shoes since my feet widened and the arches got higher, basically since my feet grew into their adult status. I could wear them as a teen only. So I will leave their fate in more expert hands but I will say they have always been a difficult fit on me compared to ballet flats or oxfords.