Can I join in here? I love hearing about where you're all at and feel like it is so helpful to get all of these different perspectives on this issue.
I've been wanting to do something about my weight and doing nothing for years. Recently, I am learning to cope with a nonserious but icky medical issue that has forced me to completely change the way I am eating and treating my body. While this has been hard in some ways (yeah, giving up my morning tea, dairy products, and chocolate, etc, all at once sucked), it's actually amazing in many ways. Because of my many new dietary restrictions, I am now inspired to cook and eat creatively, and the biggest change of all is that for the first time I am now able to put my body first and really think about what it needs. This is such a huge change for me, as I have always put my body last, and just taken it for granted that my body would support me when I didn't support it. It's sad that it took this kind of thing for me to get there, but it is so exciting to actually extend the love and support that my body needs from me.
Sorry to go on and on, it's just a lot of change for me to process and getting some thoughts out helps. Anyway, one of the results of this change is that I've started losing weight. I don't yet know how much since I haven't been home to my scale for several weeks, but I am really looking forward to finding out where I'm at now.
Magda, I really hear you about the difficulty of the delayed payoff. One thing that helps me is to think of my body as parts made up of what I put into it--if I put cake into my system, will parts made from that be able to do the things I want to do?
Thanks for listening.