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I also wanted to say. Suz, I think my smaller closet will serve me well during this time. Joy, I think that charcoal could be a light black and maybe navy can be an almost black. I'm going to look at the post Angie did a while back on almost black outfits a while back.
Ok so here's why I recommended a tuxedo jacket, or at least a blazer. You have a major punk streak. But all black in that style veers goth or emo. If you get something more structured or classic it conveys a different message. A bit of respect for the departed, a bit more intentional.
I'm so, so, so sorry for your loss. I hope you are holding up all right.
That is a lovely tradition to honor your father. I agree with the other ladies that texture is the way to go when wearing all black. At least it is a color that can always be found in abundance in stores.
Shedev, I don't know you, but I'm moved by your story of your father who supported you so wonderfully. What beautiful and precious memories you must have of your Dad.
The older generation still does wear black after a loved one died where I come from. My Oma wore black for two years after my Opa died. Not solid black only though, she mixed in some dark greys and small unobtrusive patterns with grey, dark navy and white. Like wearing a black pullover and a patterned shirt under it. She had red hair and black didn't suit her.
My sympathy to you and your family. The modern world does not allow much time and ritual for grieving. It sounds like you're being very wise to build in such a powerful way to remember your Father.
so sorry to hear about your Dad. I have seen stunning all black outfits in with tonal prints and textures. I have been learning that texture and tonal prints can be just as compelling as color in some instances.
Shedev , what sad news and my condolences are with you and your family.
I so agree with other posts that texture will change up your look. A leather jacket, mixed media tops, a satin top in grey. A tweed with mostly black in the mix.
I also just want to say how sorry I am. It moves me deeply that you will wear black for a year. It is something that we have done in our culture for years also. It is a rite of passage.
I'm so very sorry for your loss, Shedev. I find it so touching for you to demonstrate your respect and mourning in this way. I have no doubt you will pull it off with style and class.
I think a mourning period of wearing black is a lovely way to honor your loved ones. It signals to the world, and reminds you as well, that recovery from such a loss takes time.
