WIW to go to MOPS - YouLookFab Forum

Every other Tuesday I go to MOPS - Mothers of Preschoolers. They have folks to watch the kids and the moms get to have their own playgroup. Even on my worst days I'm one of the better-dressed gals. I'm making an effort to bump things up a notch because I've been exhausted-frumpy mom for too long now.

I'm not sure about the scarf. Scarves always seem to just sit on my shelf of a bosom. Sometimes I think it looks weird. Suggestions for improving this scarf look?

I'm also always concerned about the back view. I have a rather ample bottom that does not sit high and tight LOL. I think it doesn't look too bad with this though.

Black tank top
BeBand under for extra long coverage
bagged-out skinny jeans
Ancient boyfriend cardi
Ethiopian shawl (a prized possession!)
Moto boots

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13 years ago

Inge

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Moderator

I hope you had fun playing, Jenny!-)

This is a wonderful Mum on the go outfit, and you have a lovely bottom, Front and back view are perfect;-) Fab boots and jeans, and I love how you've added in cream and soft pink with your cardi and scarf.

I don't mind the scarf as is, but I understand what you are saying. OK, trying to think of some suggestions for you:
Have you tried pulling down the ends lower on this scarf, so that the loop sits right next to your neck? Perhaps you can also try a longer one in a softer fabrication to help it drape better? Or tie the ends of a thinner fabric scarf together to create your own loop scarf and then drape it around your neck once or twice depending on how long it is.

Here are some visuals of longer/bigger scarves and different knots for more inspiration:

http://www.shopbop.com/hanovar.....erID=25343

http://www.shopbop.com/katya-s.....3743020628

http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/ke.....contextual

http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/ha.....d=0&f

http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/al.....&cont

http://la-mariniere.tumblr.com/post/16521051887

http://www.maitaispicturebook......ating.html

http://pinterest.com/pin/18577417184270935/

http://pinterest.com/pin/18577417183713901/

It's so great to see you post again, Jenny!

cciele

Veteran

Good for you for bumping things up!

The back view looks just fine to me

I don't wear scarves so I can't help you out there, but Inge has some great info! I do think the scarf looks a bit bulky and you might want to try some of the other tying methods for a sleeker look.

Anonymous

I think this looks good! I would just add that a different scarf tie I think would solve your problems.

Tina

You look really good. I love the scarf, that is such a nice pink. I don't see what you see re: your rear view bottom:-) You look stylish and ready to get things done.

Raisin

MOPS sounds like an awesome idea! Wish we had something like that.

Well you looked great. Very stylish but looks easy to wear and comfy. Perfect!

I don't see any rear view problems at all. It's a lovely outfit. With regards to the scarf, how about tying it like a mans tie (loosely) and letting the longer ends hang down to create a lengthening line.

Glory

http://pinterest.com/mrskpasadena/scarves/
I think you look great. Some of the ladies have suggested trying some alternative ways to tie them. I love scarves and find they can add lots of interest to an outfit. I attached a link which shows some scarf options.

Tina.b

I think you look great! I love the pairing of the black and white, it gives you a long and lean silhouette. I agree a different scarf knot will help. What is the size and shape of the scarf? It is a gorgeous colour.

@Raisin: They have MOPS in Canada too:

http://www1.mops.org/web/web_group_search.php

You look great. I love the long cardi on you, and I'm sure you appreciate not having your back exposed too! Great scarf. I love it when they are really personal.

rachylou

I love the scarf, that was my favorite part! Lol. Back view looks fine. I can't say it's super interesting, but then I'm not sure how often the back view is in general...

JennyK (NC)

Active Member

LOL about the back view not being super interesting. I'd like it to be really interesting in a good way, but my worry is always that it's really interesting in a not-so-good way! Mostly I wanted to make sure that the cardi was hitting me at a relatively flattering point. I think it does. I'm ok with the width appearance.

I love scarves and wore them all the time in my pre-baby days. Maybe I didn't notice the shelf effect before? It's not like I have a bigger chest now than I did then. I'll have to measure the scarf and just experiment. I also should look through my past WiWs because I've worn it many, many times!

CocoLion

I was very intrigued to find out what MOPS meant, and am happy for you that it has nothing to do with cleaning.

This looks like a great MOTG outfit and the lighter color cardi brings it into Spring. No problem at all with the rear view, I think you look great in back! But I understand the concern, I'm an hourglass/pear so regularly think of this as my problem area.

As for the scarf, here's my opinion which you can take or leave. I love scarves for warmth. But for fashion, they are tricky. On bustier ladies, an open or v neck looks best. But if you want to wear a scarf, I suggest a sheer, lighter weight scarf so as not to add so much volume on top. And to wrap it just once or wear it long so as to preserve the open neckline of the top being worn. I know bulky scarves are all the rage but I prefer lighter weight ones for this reason, hard to find right now.

Beth Ann

Love the splash of pink, Jenny! I suspect the camera angle is exaggerating the "bountiful bosom" effect. It lookes like you're shooting a little "up." That said, a different tying method or a lighter scarf could soften the look.

As for the "back view," I notice your wonderfully long legs, and you seem very proportional. I'd like to see you thinking about highlighting your leg length -- which skinnies and boots does so nicely.

Glad you have a morning out with MOPS. It's a great organization.

Deborah

We have MOPS and Mainly Music here. I am not sure who enjoyed it more me or my then toddler:) I really like this outfit. I think it is a perfect MOTG ensemble. The burst of colour in the scarf is lovely.

Isabel

I just LOVE your hair !!!! I still cannot believe how much your look and your life have changed from 3 years ago. You look great. I agree that the scarf should be longer. Also, a short scarf that you could wear like a choker would add color and look good. That color pink looks really good.

I hope you had fun and that your boys did too !

Jaime

You look awfully good for a (presumably) exhausted mother of twin pre-school boys! Or for just anyone.

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