I do get what you are saying about not flattering enough -- reading your description alone. I can imagine myself arguing with Angie the very exact same reasons this would not be flattering enough on me either, since we have similar shoulders/neck. But then I looked at the photos and see you in this and ... it IS flattering -- and WAY more than enough! You look gorgeous and stunning. Very inspirational for me.
*ban the self talk and just try the darn thing on*
My second reaction was... wow, this could maybe work with flares. White denim flares. Maybe I'm losing it because it's been a long day. I guess what I'm seeing is that flattery is not just shape, it's color too. And you rock those colors. Love the shoes and how they pick up the colors in the top, and draw attention to your face. I'm wondering now what would happen with loose/flowy & white all the way down?