Lisa p I think your Blondos look perfect!
As Suz and others have mentioned, I much prefer a higher shaft boot (not tall, but closer to the bottom of my calf than to my ankle bone) because I don't love the chopped-up look of too much of a gap on my lower leg.
The outfit dictates whether my socks match my pants, my shoes, both, or neither. My socks are mostly black, burgundy, or olive, which gives me an option for pretty much any of my shoes. I have some sheer black and nude knee-highs but I consider them only for dressier occasions and mild weather. I would freeze wearing just hose on my feet in the winter, but more power to those who can do it!