Actually I feel like I've had a fling with experimentation but I'm settling back into a version of "what I did before"...only this time, I'm armed with knowledge.
I have always preferred pants to skirt and dresses. I'm back to mostly pants these days, but the difference is, I now know how to rock a skirt if I need to or want to. I know what hemlines work, and what shapes, and which shoes and tops work the various kind of skirts. I even know what kinds of belts will work, and where to position them. This skirt knowledge makes me happy, but still, nine days out of ten, I reach for pants. I guess I've made peace with the fact that I prefer to be judged as a man in a woman's body, ha.
Also, I've added a few things to the arsenal, like shirts with collars, and wool sweaters. I've accepted the fact that jewellery and me can only have a limited relationship. And I've experimented with all the shapes of jeans, and found a version of each one that works for me -- although which kind I reach for varies with the spirit of the times, I think. (Right now it's boyfriends, of course).
So yes, I think I'm with you on this -- I'm settling into a comfortable style, and I feel like it's going to be in a holding pattern for quite a while. But especially since joining YLF, I kind of feel like I "get" the -- for lack of a better word -- rules, and can use them to my benefit, rather than just applying the hit-and-miss approach I used before.
