Hi, I've been reading for a while and would like to join the forum and maybe even some day post some photos and get your help with some things.
I am 54 and a legal secretary in Ann Arbor, Michigan, USA. I've always loved cute clothes and sewed a lot of my own clothes in high school when we lived overseas and had NO access to Western type stores. I wish I had time to do that again. I have sewn some simple shorts and tops over the years.
My mom saw an Oprah show once that she made me watch (hm, she must have thought I wasn't dressing right) about dressing "as cute as you can be," and since then it's been sort of a goal for me to do the best I can with what I've got. I learned my best colors back in the 80's and that has really helped. I love black and white and jewel tones. Love dark green with my eyes.
Recently I've learned more about proportion (from YouLookFab and again, from Oprah - copying her boot cut pants to de-emphasize my pear shape; love that trick). I'm still not sure if I'm short waisted or not so would love to learn more about that. I know I like short jackets but since I got into middle age (with some weight gain; recently lost 20 of it and I think I've about decided that's good enough!) - I've wanted to wear longer sweaters and jackets but they don't usually look good on me. I am 5'5" tall.
Is this scattered or what? I'm trying to type fast on my lunch break.
My retired policeman husband and I hope to really retire in about 3 years and move to our home on Lake Huron in northeastern Michigan. I can't imagine not working at all but hope to do it from our home where I can gaze at the lake....
There my style can be even more casual than the business casual I wear daily now. I'll be looking for some good boots to wear with jeans and also some good snow boots. My snow boots now are old and I probably should replace them, but I have such a hard time getting shoes to fit. I do hate shoe shopping, I should say, and have gotten a kick out of ordering shoes from Nordstroms and Zappos, having them delivered free to my office where I can wear them on carpet for a day or two to really try them out before keeping or returning (also for free).
I'm thrifty, did I mention? And don't enjoy shopping. Oh, I did get a Nordstrom's personal shopper and am LOVING that. She is very good about keeping in touch and remembering what I like and "need".
And I have a tailor and am familiar with having pants taken in at the waist for my pear shape. Good investment. I have him hem them, too.
My favorite thing to wear is probably boot cut pants (I have a wonderful ponte pair I just got from Macy's - Inc. brand) or jeans, hemmed just right, with comfortable ankle boots and a short jacket or knit top. I need help with accessories; I like light-weight scarves, I have a long neck so I can actually wear them! I also like hats and just got a "Downton Abbey" style cloche from a friend who knits. Maybe I'll upload that here!
I'd like to get back in to wearing dresses, even at work. Not sure I want to invest in a big selection (see above re moving to a more casually dressed community) but I do see so many cute ones I'd like to try. I used to wear them all the time to work - a lot of skirts and jackets, even, and I'm sure I could get used to them again. Now my "uniform" is mostly black/navy pants and contrasting knit tops, sometimes with cardigans or jackets. It's easy and always looks fine. I'd just like some variety, esp in the summer.
Which reminds me I have TWO Halogen pencil skirts which I LOVE - and "need" to wear!!!! I saw them recommended on TWO blogs and so I got them when they went on sale at Nordstroms. They look good on me - I love pencil skirts and these are something like ponte which covers all the bumps! I just need to figure out the hosiery, shoes and tops to go with.
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