Hello everyone, I'm Farzana. I discovered this fabulous site by accident, and have been lurking and working my way through old threads and blog posts for the past few weeks, but thought I should really come out of the shadows and introduce myself
I'm 33 years old, married but no kids at present. I live in Glasgow in Scotland, and am a qualified doctor, spending most of my postgrad training specialising in psychiatry. However due to a variety of reasons I've been out of the work arena for nearly two years. I'm actually in the middle of filling out application forms to go back to work, and am finding the whole process just a bit intimidating. I find that I'm seizing any excuse to go do something else - classic distraction strategy!
I've always classed myself as a pretty conservative dresser, partly due to the work environment I was in, but I think mostly because of my natural "play it safe" inclinations. There's a lot of black in my wardrobe, along with a mixture of some bright and pastel colours. I have had one or two compliments in the past for looking "classic" and well turned out. However I don't think I've ever felt brave enough to go outside my comfort zone of solid colours and subtle accessories. I hardly own anything in prints or patterns, and almost no colourful accessories. I'm also generally a trousers rather than skirts and dresses girl.
I'm quite frugal by inclination. It was unusual for me to spend a lot of money on myself even when I was earning well, and at the moment it's more of a necessity. However I've recently started looking in charity shops and finding some great pieces. I think it satisfies my love of finding a bargain - I just wish I'd discovered them sooner!
One other major influence on my dressing style is the fact that, although I was born and brought up in the UK, I come from a South Asian background with quite traditional parents. This meant no baring of flesh unnecessarily, and even now I never expose my legs; very occasionally I'll wear a dress for a wedding but make sure it doesn't show anything above the ankles. I've re-educated myself so that I can now wear short, even cap sleeves, but still can't bring myself to wear anything sleeveless in public.
Im 5'2" and weigh around 120lbs - I don't keep a close eye on my weight so don't know exactly. I think I'm a mixture of hourglass and pear-shaped, but will hopefully get a picture up soon so some of you lovely ladies can tell me if I'm right
One thing I really love doing is dancing. You probably won't have heard of modern jive (or "ceroc") in the US; it's a type of freestyle partner dancing, and is actually where I met my gorgeous husband. It has influenced my wardrobe in that I started buying sparkly stuff to wear to dancing. However I've been doing it for four years now, and while I still like sparkles, my main priority now is comfort - it can get very hot at times! I also like card-making, having started by doing all the stationery for our wedding and realising how much I enjoyed it.
Whew, sorry this has turned into such an essay! These are a couple of photos of me and my other half on our wedding day (I hope I've done this right!):
http://picasaweb.google.com/11.....6046576290
http://picasaweb.google.com/11.....1450138786
Please note that's quite different to how I normally look - I wouldn't want to be accused of false advertising!
Anyway, I just wanted to say how impressed I've been by the really supportive, tactful and understanding nature of this forum. I look forward to becoming a part of your community