Love your kitchen!
You might really like the blog http://www.thenester.com. She has a new book out about Cozy Minimalism that I'm wanting to read. I think you will relate to her style and choices.
I'm no longer loving the farmhouse look, and I"m not buying more; I think it is over saturated in the market and it isn't making me happy right now. Two many things going on. It is starting to remind me of 1980s country, which I still see at estate sales. I seem to want fewer, but larger pieces that make more of a statement.
I'm not buying any more fake succulents. Mind you, I haven't tossed the few that I have, but I'm stopping there.
I just got a new sectional sofa for a newly redone room, and I deliberately didn't "go gray" with it, as Maria Killam has me looking toward the next trend cycle. (Maria is to color and home decor trends what Angie is to fashion, and I save a lot of time by just listening to them both, and shopping with them in my head.) I went with a sort of linen tweedy neutral taupe for the sofa and greige walls (BM Edgecomb gray) which, if I get bored, will let me change accessories for a fresh look.
Navy looks fresh, and I"m adding some gold hardware or accents, but not making major commitments. I re-did a piece of brown wood furniture (painted it with this really great magic paint from Amazon) and got "champagne" colored (light gold) hardware.
Christmas decor at my house over the past few years is trending more toward a more spare and natural look.