I think there are 3 types of people:
-those who like and embrace volume
-those who like it on others but find it hard to understand on themselves
-those who just don't like it, period
Angie, Cathy, Laura, Inge and I are all in the first category. Rute and Jenny are in the last. Most seem to fall in the second category.
I think we all have different goals and motivations when getting dressed and finding clothes. Some want to look sexy, alluring, and/or hourglassy all the time and can't see anything else as being a flattering option. I am not one of those people. For me, fashion is very architectural. I like building different silhouettes on the framework of my body. I'd get bored quickly without a variety of silhouettes to choise from. Being sexy and feminine is about the farthest thing from my thoughts when choosing outfits. That said, I think volume is alluring in a different way. It showcases different areas of the body, like arms, legs, shoulders, and the neck. Incidentally, the things I am most confident about.
I do not think I look bigger or pregnant or anything else people commonly fear with volume. I'm also amused when people mention a large bust as the reason volume can't work. At a 28FF, I am reasonably confident that I have one of the biggest racks compared to my overall frame size of pretty much everyone else on the forum. Laura has more pretty pearish tendencies than I do and she looks great. Cathy and Inge look fab too despite being different shapes as well. So while I respect the fact that some people have trouble making volume work, or just flat out don't love it, I don't accept body type as an excuse!