This is fabulous!!! Thank you so much! I had to be out of the house for an hour and came back to such wonderful, thoughtful, and incredibly interesting responses!! I am WOWED by your perceptive thoughts.
Catnip, don't you worry one little bit -- you couldn't offend me! I absolutely asked for real, off the cuff responses and you gave that. So please do not think you have upset me by straight speaking. That's exactly what I was hoping for! And your perception is very valuable.
Vildy, you are right - they're just pictures, and also, as Kristin SF immediately picked up, they weren't even taken on the same day in the same lighting. So in a sense it's not a fair comparison. (Even my hair is different because I got it cut in between these two days.)
Oh - and something I forgot to mention, but Gracie and Sarah A. and TraceyLiz and Marley sensed it immediately -- the scarf really wasn't part of outfit #1 and shouldn't even have been in the photo. I threw it on just before heading out the door for warmth before grabbing my coat. At my destination I actually took it off. So the outfit looked a bit different IRL -- slightly fewer horizontal lines and a bit less going on.
Also, let me add -- I actually liked wearing both these outfits and don't think either one is "bad." Linda, I love what you said about "depends on how you want to relate to the world."
Gracie, you were also right in another way -- that first outfit WAS a "date" outfit. I wore it for my birthday lunch out with Mr. Suz. You are intuitive!
Now, before I go on, let me say that I'm astounded and very, very intrigued by the differences of opinion and perception. It's fascinating.
As for my own view -- I prefer #2, for all the reasons that the amazing gryffin so carefully and brilliantly detailed. (Thank you, gryffin!!) And others have said similar things.
But I must say that your comments on #1 have let me look at it with softer eyes as well -- SANS scarf!!!
Oh - and Marley -- I did in fact wear the scarf as is in #2. It doesn't tie (it's an infinity) and anyway I have sort of a thing against a long scarf in front -- I am generally going without them, period, when I can - but this day was just SO cold that two turtlenecks and a scarf were needed!!