That probably sounds dumb, but where do I shop for a man in his 30's? My husband has taken notice of me trying to dress myself better and has asked me to help him incorporate more style into his wardrobe.

The problem I have is that I just don't know where to shop.

Ever since I've known him he's worn golf shirts and khakis, which you can find anywhere, right? He's bought them at Kohl's, JCPenney, off the tables at Costco, wherever. They didn't require much thought and they always fit.

But now that he's started asking for clothing with more style and personality, I'm at a loss. I'm just having a hard time finding him some basic, stylish shirts and jeans that aren't over the top.

We've tried department stores, but the 'young mens' section seems too young and trendy. He doesn't want skulls and crosses all over his graphic tees. Yet, the other departments seem too old with their golf and Hawaiian print shirts.

I struggle with being age appropriate myself, but I didn't realize it's hard to find age appropriate clothing for men as well.

Any suggestions?