I received a lot of comments during my weight loss journey. People (not related to me) just would not stop commenting. It became the daily running commentary and at one point it became too much. Although they mostly meant well, I realized that my weight loss seemed to affect everyone around me. I suppose I was in a certain box in some people's minds and they had a hard time accepting that I was changing. I had a hard time, too, but I was the one losing the weight and it was my own private personal matter.
I agree with Mo in what she said and actually it did happen to me that someone started complimenting me on my weight loss only to go on to say that before I was this big, while extending his arms horizontally, to which I gave him the most rotten look that I have ever given anyone and the comments stopped for a while. Then they resumed with people telling me that I was "disappearing" which I was not. I could go on and on with this, but my main message to you is, be proud of yourself, be healthy and enjoy. Too many comments can be a bad thing, too. I also agree with MaryK in what she says about how people treat her now vs how they treated her before.
As far as telling people when I see that they lost weight, most of the time I only compliment them in general. It is a difficult journey and each person has to figure out how much of it they want to do or are able to do. Losing weight is a very sensitive issue. For me, the comments have stopped for a while and I am more than relieved about that. Sometimes silence is golden.