Gradfashionista-- you also explained that perfectly. I've never thought about wearing light pinks as neutrals because my whole life I've disliked them because of their femininity. That said, I've noticed that the blush color that has re-emerged in the last few seasons could be an incredibly good neutral color as it really looks a lot like some of my own undertones and with greys or navies or browns it doesn't have the same "girlish" vibe.
Adelfa-- I really enjoy the look you are talking about. Actually, originally I was hoping to find some deep shades like eggplant to wear with my palette in combination-- I like that subtle depth, and also enjoy metallic accents with my hair and eyes. I just struck out on the really deep almost burnt rich colors-- I just wasn't finding what I liked in my price point or was looking the wrong places/ the shape wasn't right if the color was.
Style fan, excellent point about keeping true to yourself.
Vix-- thank you for all your time, it was incredibly instructive for me! Both you and your friend are very stylish ladies, I admired a lot of the looks.
I think I agree with you --- I don't completely dislike light neutrals on myself, but I like the ones I like more as accents in the winter -- the way you explained it with skin makes perfect sense.
I love my colored shoes-- I find it so much easier to find the really deep rich shades that I love in leather than clothing and it looks totally fun or completely subtle depending on the clothing pairing.
You make an excellent point about pattern and accesories. I think I can do pattern in accesories despite struggling with it in most clothing. A scarf worth of pattern that incorporates all or one of my neutrals seems do-able. I think part of the reason I struggle with pattern is that I feel like most patterns have a feminine connotation that I have a hard time with. I love patterns like the feather print your friend is wearing, and large scale photo-type prints, and things like plaids and stripes. That said, I also am way more likely to wear pattern in the summer when I'm wearing fewer layers and have fewer things going on. Making the patterns lower contrast themselves might help with that.
What you said here really struck me as something to keep coming back to and using when shopping and creating outfits, no matter the season:
" But I do think we do well in mixed-color outfits or prints/patterns that:
- include our hair, lip color, and/or skin tone colors
- play in our mid-tone ranges so we get contrast with our hair AND our skintone
- mix lighter with mid-tone *or* darker with mid-tone"
I would love to find some prints mixing the coppery tones in my hair with browns, greys, etc. I also think that it is partially why I like the darks so much-- they contrast the highlights in my hair and skin while mimicking the natural darkness.
I also love the colors in your friend's palette, particularly the deep purple, blue, and red.