Ms. Mary, I love your idea: Have young friends.
That was basically my response to the young student in China when she asked how it felt to be an older person in the program. I said, "It feels pretty normal. At home, I am surrounded by younger people both in my work at the university and in my social circle."
This was true -- though I also have lots of older friends. Mr. Suz is 14 years older than me.
In one way, being around younger people makes us recognize our own age -- but it also makes us value our age and experience. And being around younger people also exposes us to new ideas, even as it reminds us of all those old concerns we don't have to worry about any more. (And what a relief that is!) All in all, the effect is to make us feel happy about our own age -- which in turn makes us seem "youthful" in a youth obsessed culture. It isn't really youth that we attain -- it's self-acceptance.
When I was a teenager, I noticed that the teachers often seemed quite youthful compared to my parents, even teachers who were chronologically older than my parents. (My parents, admittedly, were on the older side since they had us rather late compared to most parents at that time). My theory back then was that being around teenagers kept the teachers young. I still think there's something to that idea!
Isabel, I'm guessing, but I suspect the prompt for this question was another thread on the forum calling for "older" members to post photos. I might be wrong, but I know that thread made me scratch my head and wonder, who will identify as "older." And what does that mean?
Even in relative terms -- I am not sure what the make up of the forum is. (Lots of people read without posting, right?) I know that the age ranges from teens to 80s. (Which is SO cool!!!) Most who post regularly appear to be in their 30s to 50s, with a few 20s and a few 60s/70s.