Violett, it seems like you and I have very similar skin type and preferences. Here's what works for me:
Sunscreen : Neutrogena SPF 100+ Ultra Sheer dry touch. Anything less strong doesn't work well enough to reduce redness. However, I've read that some people with rosacea do better with physical rather than chemical sunscreens. For me I avoid the physical ones (the oxides) like the plague, because they make me break out.
Prescription rosacea : Metronidazole gel USP 0.75%. Zero side effects, good results.
Oil control and exfoliation: low concentration salicylic acid. I like the products from Philosophy. The trick is to use them sparingly and intermittently. Especially the cleanser is too strong to use twice a day in the winter. I used to use Paula's Choice salicylic products, but I now prefer these ones.
Gentle cleanser: Jason, Gentle Basics facial cleanser. Fragrance Free.
Night Moisturizer: Acure night cream.
Micellar cleansing water: I second the recommendation for the Simple brand.
Eye Makeup remover: started with Neutrogena and moved to the Target brand generic for price. Now that I am getting older, I'm finding it too drying. I'm soon going to be trying out the Philosophy makeup remover because it has added moisturizing ingredients versus the cheaper option.
Eye /Lip cream plus primer in one: Elizabeth Arden Advanced Lip-Fix Cream. I am so happy to see it now on Amazon. It disappeared from local stores years ago, and I never found a substitute.
I'm in an experimental phase with anti-aging products and if you are interested I can report back when I decide what I like.
If you wear foundation that works well I would like to know the brand. I like Almay Clear Complexion with 0.5% salicylic acid. I wish I knew something else that stayed put without clogging my pores, (no mineral sunscreens) because I don't always want the salicylic acid.