There have been references in recent threads about the casualness of modern life, and the lack of opportunities to ‘dress up’. Like most folks, (but not Angie ) I’m going to be in jeans and t-shirts when I’m doing things like working in the garden or cleaning bathrooms - but otherwise, I strive for smart-casual outfits. Usually the ‘smart’ is my top, toppers, and accessories - since I’m a jeans and sneakers girl. However, there are times when I get to dress up. I CAN get away with smart-casual, but why not dress up - if even just a bit? For me it can be as simple as wearing a low heeled pointed toe flat and carrying a leather bag - instead of sneakers and a Uniqlo half moon sling.

I usually ‘dress up’ for weekly Bridge night at the Community Centre,
and once a week outings with my mother. I also dress up for ‘date nights’ with DH every other week - and try to match my outfit to the formality of the venue. Going to the hair stylist and visiting the aesthetician is also an opportunity for a little formality - even if I change into sneakers once I’m home. I like to dress up when I go shopping. I often ask for help from the SA’s and find that if I’m dressed up, I get better service and better results. Same goes for dental and doctor appointments.

There are a couple of annual events that happen regularly (usually around holidays) and one-off concerts or theatre events. And, of course, I love dressing up for travel.

Although I don’t believe in curating a wardrobe around a fantasy life, I do believe (to quote the ghost in ’Field of Dreams’) ‘if you make it, they will come.’ In other words, if you aquire a few special items, you will find opportunities to wear them. For example, this summer I attended a 4 part Bach organ recital series, and then a Jazz festival - and wore skirt outfits or dresses for the occasions. I enjoyed the music so much, I’m looking for more of these opportunities. Although I will go for the music, dressing up makes it extra special.

What do you ‘dress up’ for?