Wow - thanks everyone for the wealth of honest and gracious feedback! This is so helpful as I think about what I do next with my hair, and after that, and after that
I am leaning towards staying with my current style (#2) for now - even though it has really grown out more into a chin-length bob at this point, I liked the edge and structure of it and i don't think I'm tired of it yet.
Angie hit the nail on the head in her hair post - I want something that looks neat and professional even with my active life - and that is not easy with my curly, fine, flyaway hair ( I have fine hair, but a lot of it.)
#6 is a close runner up though according to you all so i might change my mind and do that! And appreciate the love for the long hair - I'm sure I'll go back down that route at some point.
Carla - wow! Thanks for al that amazing inspo! I can never find haircuts on women my age and older with silver hair. That is a treasure trove and something I will for sure be taking to my stylist!
Lisa - I love those cuts too! Unfortunately they call for thicker, heavier wavy hair that doesn't fly away to look neat - with my curls I would look like Mrs. Frizzle I do like the idea of short bangs though and I might bring that up to my stylist.