Congratulations Jonesy!! & i love your gardening efforts, so pretty and cheerful!
this conversation has been very interesting for me. i'm really tending towards the 'continuum' idea after reading these and ponderin' a spell......& that it's all influenced by social, regional, time-specific, cultural norms as dianthus pointed out.
for example, when i was growing up those top two madewell linx (thank you, Jonesy! madewell is new to me!) would have been pretty unexpected and definitely playing on the 'gender borderline'. but at age 49, and living in a very 'edgy' geographical region with regard to gender, those looks strike me as very 'femme'. as i pointed out before, around here there's a # of people that you just can't tell 'boy or girl' by how they look. it's like my 'androgyny-detecto-meter' has been reset!
Angie, it's interesting that you see a lot of that 'uni-sex' look near your place - it sounds like it's more popular in urban, 'left coast' areas. 'uni-sex' is a good term for it! i *think* my ideas here have to do with fashion & social ideas, not so much the literal.
and again, speaking from experience with seeing different people experimenting with how they present their gender, re: androgynous people......you'd be surprised what hair, makeup, and body language have to do with our perceptions of gender. i'd say a good 50% of women, and about 30% of men (facial hair is hard to get around), could come across as pretty androgynous if they really put their minds to it (without hormones or surgery). i've been good friends with a couple of drag queens, they can teach a person a LOT about this
Jonesy, i'm curious to know if this thread has gone in the direction you thought it would? it's gone a lot of unexpected places from where i thought it might, and i love it!! steph