Thanks, everyone. Glad to know I'm not crazy.
MsMaven, I have lots of colored sandals (mustard, cherry, turquoise)! I also have red booties.
Ummlila, I do worry that light pants can look sausagey. For that reason I think I'm leaning toward the BFs.
Cheryle, hmm I hardly own any yellow (it's my least favorite color) and no light yellow, but now that you mention it, my grey blazer w/citron tipping works really well.
KL, I'd definitely consider some slim straights but I haven't seen any around.
Rabbit, thanks for the photos! Lots of inspiration here. Re: white jeans, one do the huge reasons I don't own any is that I have ZERO tolerance for seams and pocket linings showing through on pants, and I never ever see summer-weight white denim that doesn't have that problem. Which reminds me: is the grey denim dark enough that the seams/pockets won't show? Like I said, that's a dealbreaker for me.
Here's another pair (rag and bone dres) I found in a slightly darker grey. They seem a bit too warm toned though (but pictures lie so who knows...)